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Thread: How to Tell If a Girl is Shit-Testing you or just genuinely upset?

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    Default How to Tell If a Girl is Shit-Testing you or just genuinely upset?

    Hey guys. About a week and a half ago, I took a girl out on a 3rd date to go shopping with me. Initially when I picked her up in my car, she was not cheerful and made a couple of negative remarks here and there about small problems with her roommate. (her not washing dishes, cleaning the house, etc.) I listened closely with empathy and then went being fun, playful, and flirty. Later on the date, we were at a fish tank and I was poking fun at the fishes but she seemed very withdrawn and barely made conversation with me. At this point, I just wanted to leave since I couldn't stand the awkwardness and her pessimistic behavior so I took her back home.

    In retrospect, it seems I perceived her behavior as a shit-test by not being affected and being playful. But come to think of it, she may have something really bothering her. Should I have asked her what was wrong? What would you guys have done?

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    Default Re: How to Tell If a Girl is Shit-Testing you or just genuinely upset?

    You're are thinking too much about it. If you think something is bothering her or she looks upset, be genuinely concerned and ask her. Sometimes girls will just be in a bad mood and you have to calibrate and match their levels. Show her that you care to build comfort and slowly start talking about other things and be light and playful to bring up the mood.
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    Default Re: How to Tell If a Girl is Shit-Testing you or just genuinely upset?

    Will pretty much summed it up. You're thinking about it WAY too much. This wasn't a shit test.

    I don't really pay too much attention if a girl is in a bad mood because they get that way sometimes. I just act the same way I always do. Don't let her mood effect you ever.

    I usually don't ask her what's wrong but if I do I say something like "You're acting different. Tell me what's going on". If she wants to talk about it she will. If she doesn't she won't. Then drop it.


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