Alright, so I always go out to this same bar. Gotten cool with almost everyone there. Almost all the bartenders know me and like me. One of the cooks, a bouncer or two. Anyway, there is a super hot bartender HB10 who works there. She's 22. She has kind of a bi*chy attitude. Well, it took me a few times of coming in to really get cool with her. So, we eventually got cool. One day about two weeks ago I talked to her a lot of the day. I actually brought another chick to the bar with me and hanged out. The chick left after about 2 hours. So, I noticed the HB10 bartender was staring at me and after her shift (early to 6pm shift) was over she came and sat down next to me. I noticed her staring at me out of the corner of my eye. She looked very interested and when I looked over she would look away quickly; I took this as a ioi. I told her I liked her nails and grabbed her hand to look closer. Wanted to see if she'd let me or try to pull away. She let me easy. We talked a bit. I told her we need to party and exchange numbers. I pulled my phone out and handed it to her. She put her number in VERY quickly and seem excited to give it to me. This was on a Sunday. I waited a few days to text her. It was the following Thursday when I text her. We talked a little through text. She is VERY apathetic. I come into the bar that Saturday night with 3 friends. She looks over at me and says hi. I'm expecting that to be all. It wasn't. She was trying to talk to me ALLLLLL night. Kept coming over wanting to show me pictures and tell me about her week and asking about me and stuff. Asked me if I was going to miss her because she wont be working Sundays anymore. She told me about a Christmas party (Yes, very late) and said she'd be in the next night to wrap gift and told me to say hello. Went GREAT.
So, that next day I go in as usual but she's not there. I text her that she should stop by and say hello. It was football Sunday so I was gonna be there for a while. She didn't reply but came in about 2 hours or maybe a little less later. She sat down behind me and started wrapping stuff. I came over and sat with her and we talked a bit. 30 min or so later a guy comes down from upstairs (Loft above bar) and sits down next to her. He is casual and another woman comes over to talk to him. He's holding conversation with the other chick and rubbing the HB10's shoulders. HB10 leans in to me and says "She is in love with him". I respond with "She's trying to take your guy, huh?" She shrugs and smiles. I wanted to see what she would say to that. I hear the other chick say to the guy about HB10 "She's really pretty". He says "Thank you. I think so too". It was getting awkward so I waited for a good normal way to exit and did. Didn't go to the party because would've been awkward.
Finishing up. I text her more during the week doing a little push-pull and playful tease. Invited her out for Mardi Gras. She said she was working that day. I left that alone. Saw her a few days later come into the bar with the boyfriend and another bartender who knows me. HB10 and this other bartender were drunk as hell. HB10 didn't really say much but was looking at me. Drunk bartender was calling my name and causing attention to me. Which I thought was good. So, HB10 walked past me and poked me in the back and sat at the other side of the bar. After a few minutes I go over there with her and the boyfriend and a couple other people and we do shots etc. I was talking to another guy who works there and he was telling me that HB10 is kinda slutty and is a golddigger and I could probably sleep with her. He told me she JUST started talking to this new guy and he thinks it's only because he has money. I just want to smash her. Any advice??????