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    fredyyy is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default ask to be a fuck buddy- text or in person?

    ***sorry for the typo in the title*** lol anyway

    I just want this girl to be my fark buddy again, and I don't want to be her gay friend and go out places and not have sex at the end. we're going out tonight. (I don't have my own place, she lives with her sister)

    1- from your experience? should I ask her if she should be farkbuddy through text or should i ask her in person? what I'm thinking is that through texting women will open up much easier, they don't have to worry about their physiological response like they would in person if you asked a bold sexual question

    2- what should I say?

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    Default Re: ask to be a fuck buddy- text or in person?

    A Fuck Buddy relationship is a relationship based on Sex and Sex only. You meet, have a coffee, and you have sex, after it she goes home.Everything more than that will send relationship signals, and it may complicate pure Fuck buddy relationship.

    For me, yet he best way to get yourself a fuck buddy is by text flirting and seeing if she starts reciprocating. If she does, get bolder and bolder with the sex talk. And at some point I would be totally honest

    I would say something like this;

    “Look, I *have to be honest with you, because I am not sure what your expectations are and I don’t want to hurt you. I really enjoy being with you, I love every moment we spend together, you are exactly the girl I am looking for, but I have to be honest with you, I am not ready for a relationship right now but that*doesn’t*mean I don't want to see you,*I so want to see you, I want to be with you but I just don’t want from us to be called ” boyfriend/Girlfriend”. I would love to be your boyfriend, but I cannot play that role right now. So I wonder can we stay “friends” like we are right now. I would really love that.

    Say it in a nice smooth way like this and she will agree 100%. “Fuck buddy” talk is important

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    fredyyy is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: ask to be a fark buddy- text or in person?

    these are the best "fark" budyy advises!! ;D

    I agree with you. text flirting is good and important, but when tell her about what you feel, will you say it in person, or over text, or it doesn't matter you think?

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    Default Re: ask to be a fuck buddy- text or in person?

    Fred, you've had sex with this girl already ???

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    Default Re: ask to be a fark buddy- text or in person?

    I did, but that was more than a year ago, then I haven't seen her more very long time. So it's like a fresh start

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    Default Re: ask to be a fuck buddy- text or in person?

    Well Fred ,the thing about a Fark Buddy is that you have to give her*an amazing*time in bed. Make sure she*orgasms. Fullfil her sexual dreams and ask her what she never did in the bedroom but always wanted to try. Make being Fark Buddies an adventure. And whatever you do avoid cuddling time in bed. If you have to do it, give a minimum of it. Cuddling will increase the emotional bond to you and then she will want to be more then just “fark buddy’s”. I would also try to keep the meet ups to no more then 2x per week. Be busy, have a life, date other girls if you want, but do not get her used to spending too much time with you or else again she'll want to be more then just FB's

    GL





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    Default Re: ask to be a fark buddy- text or in person?

    thank you this is a really good advice. I'm definitely keeping it in my mind with every interaction I will have with any girl!!


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