A few months back I was hooking up with this chick - long story short, she was also hooking up with another guy, he won out and is now her boyfriend. No big deal, I moved on and continued spinning plates, got over it real quick.
Lately she's been texting me though...just stupid little texts like "hey miss you what's up" and the like. If I answer at all, it'll be a day later and something short. Which brings me to my question...
On the one hand, I want to tell her that I don't settle for second and we really have nothing to talk about as long as she has a boyfriend, but how do I do that without coming off as a giant dick? If/when she's no longer with this guy, I'd like to keep the door open for potential booty calls, since she was a fantastic lay. But even aside from that, I'm not a mean spirited guy - I don't hate her or anything like that and really feel no need to treat her like shit. Just want to let it be known that I have no interest in being "just friends."
Normally I would just ignore it, but like I said, I'd like to keep that booty call door open for down the road.