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    Default Re: Ugly guy tries getting girls. (RESULTS INSIDE)

    Well blackbird, I was talking about the guy who started the thread saying he was too ugly. As a Buddhist I would never insult anybody or cut them down over anything and I certainly never judge anybody on how they look. My apologies if I said anything that caused you pain. I think it's amazing how you haven't let your issues stop you. I think it says a lot about you.

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    Default Re: Ugly guy tries getting girls. (RESULTS INSIDE)

    Quote Originally Posted by drgnsfire12 View Post
    Well blackbird, I was talking about the guy who started the thread saying he was too ugly. As a Buddhist I would never insult anybody or cut them down over anything and I certainly never judge anybody on how they look. My apologies if I said anything that caused you pain. I think it's amazing how you haven't let your issues stop you. I think it says a lot about you.
    No no no.. I knew what you were saying. What I was trying to do there, without getting all complicated with quotes and italics and such was basically demonstrate my mindset on how I crush any suggestion, by anyone, that I'm not a super great prize.

    What you said could have been interpreted as being directed towards me, but of course, being me, I wouldn't assume that it was. But since this is a PUA forum, I decided to assume it was about me because then I could give the OP a bit more insight into how you crush those negative ideas.

    I hope that makes sense. I admit it was a little convoluted.
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    Default Re: Ugly guy tries getting girls. (RESULTS INSIDE)

    (to op) I've been told many times that I'm good-looking, but I've only ever gotten laid by one girl. That's because most of them react to me the same way they react to you.

    They're not uncomfortable because you look like shit, they're uncomfortable because you're uncomfortable. Girls are hard-wired to be afraid of The Thirst, and it is strong in you and I.

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    Default Re: Ugly guy tries getting girls. (RESULTS INSIDE)

    To OP:

    You know what girls love more than looks? Confidence. A guy can be ugly as hell, but if he has confidence like a king, girls will be attracted to him. There is a video on YouTube that was made by SimplePickup. One video showed a tinder account with a hot girl, but when the guy shows up to meet with her in person, it's more of a catfish. She's wearing this fat suit, with weird makeup, different from the photos. About 90% of the guys left, because she looked different. Next video, they changed the genders. Tinder account with good looking guy. Girls meet up with guy but he's in a fat suit, but he has confidence like crazy. He accepts his short comings and his looks, and his inner confidence is really shown. He sets up other dates with these girls. They show genuine interest in him.

    So, it really doesnt matter about looks. If you would wake up each morning, saying I'm awesome, good looking, and any girl out there would be lucky to have me, walk with your head high and shoulders tall. Change your persona about your own life, you will see a change.

    Go out to fail, and learn to accept failure but how to grow. You know Michael Jordan failed so many times in the game of basketball. He lost games, missed shots, but he kept on playing.

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    Default Re: Ugly guy tries getting girls. (RESULTS INSIDE)

    Quote Originally Posted by saguviper View Post
    Go out to fail, and learn to accept failure but how to grow. You know Michael Jordan failed so many times in the game of basketball. He lost games, missed shots, but he kept on playing.
    "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take"

    I *think* it was Wayne Gretzky who said that. Nevertheless, it's spot-on. Gonna go out this weekend and fail like a mofo!
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    Default Re: Ugly guy tries getting girls. (RESULTS INSIDE)

    to blackbird:

    I've got mad respect for you man. anyone who can overcome their obvious disadvantages and bag more b!tches than I do with my few advantages deserves my applause. you're the kind of guy who inspires me. if you ever travel through west Virginia, drinks are on me.

    to the op:

    read blackbirds story. if it doesn't inspire you to stop blaming your failures on your looks I don't know what will.

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    Default Re: Ugly guy tries getting girls. (RESULTS INSIDE)

    I really want dudes like the OP to succeed. I want to succeed too. The truth is, I understand completely where he is coming from. I understand what it's like to feel like that. I understand what it's like to have the belief that your looks are holding you back and there's absolutely no hope for for because there's not enough that you can do to fix it.

    And I really wish I could slow down, come to a rolling stop, put my arms around the dude's shoulders and be like, "Yeah. Look. I know it sucks. I know we kind of drew the short straw here... but look. Women want a winner. Women want a guy who just blasts through shit and makes them squeal with amusement... and you definitely can't do that when you're busy being butt-hurt about your looks. Sure, your looks might suck. Sure, you might be ugly. But every second you spend thinking about that is making you less attractive... so even if it's completely 100% true... and I won't say that it isn't... even if it's completely undeniably factually true... that's fine. That's life. That's the way it is. But you'd be a fool to ever acknowledge it because it only makes things worse."

    You don't like reality? That's fine. Ignore it. Make your own reality. And pretty soon other people will start to follow along. Basically, this is inner game shit, it's developing new beliefs. It's game theory, asking yourself whether your current beliefs are really beneficial. Here's the funny thing...

    BELIEFS MUST BE BENEFICIAL! If you believe a murderer is outside your door, that's a perfectly fine belief to have, so long as it helps keep you alive, otherwise, it's paranoia. If you believe you are ugly, that's a fine belief too, as long as it makes your life better for believing it. See? Here's the funny thing... if a belief seems really really true, but also very limiting or restrictive, then toss it the hell out. Recreate it in a way that it's more helpful to you. I talk about my birth defects, I talk about my surgeries. But I no longer think I'm ugly.. I think I'm farking amazing and chicks are lucky to know me. I can point to the surgeries I've had, I can mention describe in great detail why I don't look like other guys. I can explain each and every scar. But I know girls don't care about that shit. So it doesn't make me less attractive.

    Sure, I fail HARD on Tinder. I can pick up a girl faster in a bar than I can get a match on Tinder. Because me appearance isn't super handsome. Alright. But that isn't the same thing as being ugly or unattractive. Because I can go into a bar, a cafe, a bookstore, and some girl is going to be attracted to me... it just doesn't show up in photographs. Alright. So what? There's more to attraction than your face.
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    Default Re: Ugly guy tries getting girls. (RESULTS INSIDE)

    There are a lot of great ideas here! But I have to disagree with one thing Blackbird said which is, "I really want dudes like the OP to succeed." It's cool that you do, but I don't.

    This dude came on a forum to tell us about his "failure" and hasn't posted once to the rest of this thread or told us that he has even read our thoughts. I don't want complainers to succeed. I want the people who wake up in the morning and thing, "Man, I have to fix this," and continuously make an effort to fix it.

    Then again, I'm probably just salty as hell cuz I woke up every day for over a year with it being the only thing on my mind. Sorry if I come off sounding like an asshole, I just think the people who wake up every day and grind for the change are the ones that I would like to see succeed.
    Caveat: Just because I feel a certain way about my journey doesn't mean you should feel the same about yours.

    If you can't say that you would rather die than not do it; you don't want it bad enough.

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    Default Re: Ugly guy tries getting girls. (RESULTS INSIDE)

    Quote Originally Posted by The Elitist View Post
    There are a lot of great ideas here! But I have to disagree with one thing Blackbird said which is, "I really want dudes like the OP to succeed." It's cool that you do, but I don't.

    This dude came on a forum to tell us about his "failure" and hasn't posted once to the rest of this thread or told us that he has even read our thoughts. I don't want complainers to succeed. I want the people who wake up in the morning and thing, "Man, I have to fix this," and continuously make an effort to fix it.

    Then again, I'm probably just salty as hell cuz I woke up every day for over a year with it being the only thing on my mind. Sorry if I come off sounding like an asshole, I just think the people who wake up every day and grind for the change are the ones that I would like to see succeed.
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    Default Re: Ugly guy tries getting girls. (RESULTS INSIDE)

    I've seen many guys who were too short, fat or "ugly" and still get hot chicks. I could instantly tell by looking at them that they had confidence and had game. It's all about how you perceive reality.
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