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    Default What would an Alpha Male do in these situations?

    Hi! To start off, I'm trying my best to improve myself in every angle I can and your answers/suggestions or heck - even advice if you wanna call it that- matter a lot to me. So, here we go.

    Imagine yourself in a situation where you are with a group of 5 friends out of which 3 of your friends are girls and the the rest two are guys, including yourself. Now, I'm pretty sure a lot of newbies or guys with less social skills would find themselves difficult in a situation where the other guy in YOUR group starts trying to take the lead and show others that he's the man and he controls YOU. In other words, the other guy in the group attempts to make you feel less important or show that he's better at you in everything just to impress the girls in the group. My question here repeats itself: How would an Alpha Male react to this, and take control of this situation and make that other guy shut up?

    Another situation, what would an alpha male do if another guy asks him to do something for him whilst others are watching and you can't even say no because you don't want to show that you are "rude". For example, imagine you're in a class seated with a guy who thinks he's the shit, and every five minutes or so he asks you to do something for him. For instance, this guy asked me to bring my portable hard disk next week because he wanted to copy something so I replied saying to remind me the day before by texting me but he completely rejected that opinion and instead he told me to add it to my calender for next week (you know, on your phone as an alarm), at this point I was so pissed and didn't reply him. Anyhow, what would an alpha male do here?

    How would an Alpha Male take control of situations like these?

    I know these situations might present myself as a pussy, but the truth is I don't know how to socialize which is exactly why I'm trying to learn. After all, we all were AFCs before we learnt shit, so please avoid commenting negative shit. Thanks for reading!

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    Default Re: What would an Alpha Male do in these situations?

    If you're out with your friends, you shouldn't try to out alpha each other. If your "friend" tries to impress the girls and make you look like shit, it shows him as being try hard and qualifying. Best thing to do is just be non-reactive and have fun, be more fun than him and the girls will naturally attract towards you. Be expressive in your facial and body gestures, dance and sing to the music. Once he sees that the girls are paying more attention to you, he'll try more to be your friend (if you want that) and you'll naturally become the leader.
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    Default Re: What would an Alpha Male do in these situations?

    Quote Originally Posted by WillEdward View Post
    If you're out with your friends, you shouldn't try to out alpha each other. If your "friend" tries to impress the girls and make you look like shit, it shows him as being try hard and qualifying. Best thing to do is just be non-reactive and have fun, be more fun than him and the girls will naturally attract towards you. Be expressive in your facial and body gestures, dance and sing to the music. Once he sees that the girls are paying more attention to you, he'll try more to be your friend (if you want that) and you'll naturally become the leader.
    That's some legit advice. I'll give it a shot, thanks.

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    Default Re: What would an Alpha Male do in these situations?

    Second case is easy: "I forgot, brah, told ya to remind me."

    First case: I had a guy in my group who did that; he just made a fool outta himself constantly trying to show people that he's awesome. He'd claim he swims a back stroke that can run over people's free style and had a 300+ pound squat when he squats 175 and hasn't been in the pool in like a decade LOL I'm a PhD and pretty smart so he tries to use that to boost himself, saying that I'm a dumb ass compared to him. He constantly brags about being an MD/PhD, graduating MIT's toughest program (not verified), and it's to the extent where he'd be completely embarrassed if he didn't know something that was completely unrelated to his field. He'll always say something like, "That's so stupid that you can't possibly want me to answer that" when he didn't know the answer LOL Well, it never worked; as a matter of fact, he's lost girls out of his arms when he did that. I don't know why he likes to use it; it has always caused his position to nose-dive. I never rebuked him; I just walked with the group in a very relaxed gait, chest out, shoulders back, smiling, talking to the girl I was gaming, ignoring him. I might even say, "Yeah, brah, you're a smart dude." LOL It wouldn't help him, though I tried. Alpha is all about how you carry yourself, and how you talk, not what you say. When the girls left, he'd say, "Bro, you gotta help me out! Talk me up!" LOL

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    Default Re: What would an Alpha Male do in these situations?

    Bro keep on asking questions and doing research to get better! Good job. Anyway your first case I would just ignore him and talk to my other friends or talk to the girl. Now a better one is to call them out on it. " if you really want the girls to think you're tough then just ask me and I'll be glad to help you out" it takes a lot to say that and sound natural especially if you're a beginner but the most situations you're put into you'll learn to think under pressure and do you. Second one: Again you don't have to pay attention to anyone. If he says stuff then ignore it( lol yes it burns in your heart because it looks like he's winning and the people around you may think he ownns you.) On the other hand you could just say " come on if you want my attention all you got to do is ask politely." IT TAKES PRACTICE!! You might not start doing these things you read on here right away. It'll take time and experience, but anyone who wants to change and make ththemselves better will always earn my respect. Keep on posting and you'll get better.
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    Default Re: What would an Alpha Male do in these situations?

    I think it's important to focus on you and making yourself stronger. And always remembering that it is okay to say "no". I've found by saying No and suggesting something else earns more respect than just doing what he asks.


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