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    Angry How to reframe after sounding like her dad

    Once again I've successfully landed myself in the nice guy pu$$y zone of a girl I was trying not to fvck up with. Maybe not trying to mess up was the cause of it. Anyway, some bad weather has put off a couple of dates with me and this chick. The couple of dates postponed would have been the third date. The first postponed one I called because the weather was really bad like stay off the streets bad and remarked "don't want you heading out in this weather let's reschedule." Next postponed date she postpones it and I text "I know you want to and I just heard the roads are gonna be bad so I'd rather you not drive in them. Talk to you later" I just flung her into a bad a$$ alpha's arms. I don't know if I actually literally did just now but she will probably be there shortly. A bad a$$ alpha is what I'm striving for in my game and I fvcked it up with her. How do I at least make her think I'm bada$$ and not her father if I can't ever be her boyfriend?

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    Default Re: How to reframe after sounding like her dad

    Lol don't be too hard on yourself. If the streets were that bad and you were concerned for her safety, but if you were willing to drive you could offer drive to her place and stay in a watch a movie or something. That's higher risk/reward, but could work. You don't have to make her think you're a badass. You just need to break rapport to build attraction, qualify her and escalate. Just set up another date and game her normally there.
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    Quote Originally Posted by WillEdward View Post
    Lol don't be too hard on yourself. If the streets were that bad and you were concerned for her safety, but if you were willing to drive you could offer drive to her place and stay in a watch a movie or something. That's higher risk/reward, but could work. You don't have to make her think you're a badass. You just need to break rapport to build attraction, qualify her and escalate. Just set up another date and game her normally there.
    But I am a badass and would want to convey that. So basically you're saying I'm the "nice guy" now?

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    Default Re: How to reframe after sounding like her dad

    Quote Originally Posted by mrpickles666 View Post
    But I am a badass and would want to convey that. So basically you're saying I'm the "nice guy" now?
    No! He's saying you did nothing wrong.

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    Default Re: How to reframe after sounding like her dad

    Quote Originally Posted by mrpickles666 View Post
    Once again I've successfully landed myself in the nice guy pu$$y zone of a girl I was trying not to fvck up with. Maybe not trying to mess up was the cause of it. Anyway, some bad weather has put off a couple of dates with me and this chick. The couple of dates postponed would have been the third date. The first postponed one I called because the weather was really bad like stay off the streets bad and remarked "don't want you heading out in this weather let's reschedule." Next postponed date she postpones it and I text "I know you want to and I just heard the roads are gonna be bad so I'd rather you not drive in them. Talk to you later" I just flung her into a bad a$$ alpha's arms. I don't know if I actually literally did just now but she will probably be there shortly. A bad a$$ alpha is what I'm striving for in my game and I fvcked it up with her. How do I at least make her think I'm bada$$ and not her father if I can't ever be her boyfriend?

    maybe the next time you set up a date you should check the weather reports first

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    Default Re: How to reframe after sounding like her dad

    Well it happened the week before this and I called her to reschedule saying something like "roads are bad don't drive." I shouldn't have initiated that contact because I'm initiating too much contact. I'm not letting her come to me. I just set up another date with her for Saturday. There's a definite date and time but I made a huge mistake when I texted to confirm the address after the call. What makes it even worse is she is the always the one to confirm the night before. She also did not respond to the text yet saying "ok" or "see ya there " so I'm expecting a flake. I destroyed it and I am pissed.

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    Default Re: How to reframe after sounding like her dad

    I'll be honest, I never ask a girl out, I tell a girl out ....."let's go get a drink tomorrow at XYZ bar, meet you there at 7:09 ..... don't be late or you are buying the first round" so much better then " so I was thinking if you are free maybe we can go get a drink tomorrow or if not how about Thursday night if that is better for you " ...... and I never confirm, I let them confirm ..... if she doesn't show she gets deleted and then she gets a text telling her she has been deleted .... happy to say that's only happened to me once but the girl fell down some stairs and she broke her ankle so I gave her a pass ...... my point is NEVER be wishy washy with your plans and once you make them tell her what the plan is and how it's going to happen ......GL

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    Default Re: How to reframe after sounding like her dad

    No I wasn't wishy washy. I didn't ask. I set it up and then confirmed the address via text after the call since I have two houses. That's what I think hurt me.

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    Default Re: How to reframe after sounding like her dad

    I dont know about that .....I dont think what you did was bad, you were confirming an adress ... to me thats taking care of business ... you are making sure she has the correct location !?!?!??!



    Quote Originally Posted by mrpickles666 View Post
    No I wasn't wishy washy. I didn't ask. I set it up and then confirmed the address via text after the call since I have two houses. That's what I think hurt me.


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