Re: ***NEEDHELPFAST!*** didn't pull the trigger!! she is flat lining!
Nice. You had a very strong approach. Unfortunately it doesn't seem to have been backed up properly. But this is just my opinion.
There are two types of attraction. I forget what they are called. But one is for the moment and the other lasts. The one in the moment is when you're the fun party guy at the bar. But once she gets home to her normal sober life that attraction is gone. While the other is the one that stays with her when she goes home.
I think that's what happened my friend. You came on strong and sexual, but you didn't solidify it. On top of that you let her do most of the talking, which I know can be tough to get them to stop, but you aren't doing yourself any favors by letting her go on and on. Then your follow up Facebook messages do warrant some caution on her part. You're really horny and want her and I believe she sees it. It doesn't seem like a lot of comfort building was going on, at least on your part, so because of your sexual energy you likely came across as a player. And we PUAs are better than that.
The one thing I see guys NOT doing, including PUAs, is not qualifying women. Qualification is soooooo important. Most men approach women cause they've already decided they want them. But forget that they have to verbally say that they are interested at some point to bridge the gap between building attraction and building comfort.
The other really good thing about qualification is that it solidifies any attraction she has for you. So when she goes home she knows why you like her. Let me ask you...if you were in her head and were asked "why does he like me" what would be your answer?
So if you know you didn't tell her why she is special to you in any way then she will likely land on "he just wants to sleep with me." Which is fine if that's what she wants. But with her obvious resistant she may need to know she's worth more to you than booty. So you have to tell her before you start seducing again. I say take it a few steps back and fish for special traits of her that she wants to be admired for. Find whatever she is good at or loves doing and start with "Wow. I didn't know that about you. That's amazing. I think you just became my future ex-wife." A little playfulness thrown in to calibrate.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."