Re: Beaten to it - too hot to miss out on
Wow, this guy does NOT sound like a good person. I'm in to take down this jackass. Call me a bit of a feminist, but women should always be respected. Period.
Originally Posted by ed64
First off, you just have to run game as if(pay close attention to this) the other guy doesn't exist. Continue to talk to her, build rapport, invite her out on dates, etc. The second thing you need to do is disqualify the other guy when he comes up in conversations. To do this, you need to build him up in a nearly impossible light in front of her. Say things like "I bet he's willing to to do anything for you in a heartbeat" or "I bet he tells you how much he cares about you every day". You need to say stuff like this in context though, so pay close attention whenever he comes up.
Last thing I can say is do not become outcome dependent. Continue to just talk to her and do things with her as if you don't care about what happens in the future.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X