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    ed64 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Beaten to it - too hot to miss out on

    Straight to the point. Married jerk with two kids moved in on my target - now doing her. No, I haven't pussied out - still ok elsewhere, but this is a ten+ I'm talking about. Simple timing error on my part (took a holiday), he hijacked my long game (which has seved me well for years with hard to gets). How to destroy him?

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    Default Re: Beaten to it - too hot to miss out on

    You shouldn't focus on him. Just brings more negativity. Did you already kiss or fully close your girl ?
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    Default Re: Beaten to it - too hot to miss out on

    Quote Originally Posted by WillEdward View Post
    You shouldn't focus on him. Just brings more negativity. Did you already kiss or fully close your girl ?
    Hi, Will.

    Yes, kissing and stroking and whatever, but not full closure. He's treating her like crap, which I don't like. she's already looking ill and very tired, and then childishly excited when the attention goes back on. I think it's a car crash looking for a tree, but that's probably just my blinkered vision...

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    Default Re: Beaten to it - too hot to miss out on

    What a sweet guy, he just said to me - 'I've got THAT doing whatever I tell IT to do" then just went back to talking about his kids.

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    Default Re: Beaten to it - too hot to miss out on

    Quote Originally Posted by ed64 View Post
    What a sweet guy, he just said to me - 'I've got THAT doing whatever I tell IT to do" then just went back to talking about his kids.
    Wow, this guy does NOT sound like a good person. I'm in to take down this jackass. Call me a bit of a feminist, but women should always be respected. Period.

    First off, you just have to run game as if(pay close attention to this) the other guy doesn't exist. Continue to talk to her, build rapport, invite her out on dates, etc. The second thing you need to do is disqualify the other guy when he comes up in conversations. To do this, you need to build him up in a nearly impossible light in front of her. Say things like "I bet he's willing to to do anything for you in a heartbeat" or "I bet he tells you how much he cares about you every day". You need to say stuff like this in context though, so pay close attention whenever he comes up.

    Last thing I can say is do not become outcome dependent. Continue to just talk to her and do things with her as if you don't care about what happens in the future.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: Beaten to it - too hot to miss out on

    Lol this guy sounds like a sweetheart. Swagman is right, just continue gaming like he doesn't exist. Break rapport, qualify, escalate and find a reason to pull. Also, it may sound a little fucked up, but she just may be naturally attracted to guys who treat her like shit. I'm naturally a nice guy and I've gamed some girls running my "normal" game and I'm able to kiss them but couldn't close until I started using the information they told me about how all their exes treated them like dirt. I started breaking more rapport than usual and be more commanding and escalating. You can use that knowledge to your advantage.
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    Default Re: Beaten to it - too hot to miss out on

    Quote Originally Posted by WillEdward View Post
    Lol this guy sounds like a sweetheart. Swagman is right, just continue gaming like he doesn't exist. Break rapport, qualify, escalate and find a reason to pull. Also, it may sound a little fucked up, but she just may be naturally attracted to guys who treat her like shit. I'm naturally a nice guy and I've gamed some girls running my "normal" game and I'm able to kiss them but couldn't close until I started using the information they told me about how all their exes treated them like dirt. I started breaking more rapport than usual and be more commanding and escalating. You can use that knowledge to your advantage.
    Thanks Will, yes, confidence has taken a big knock, but I'm regaining equilibrium. Also, thanks for the massive truth at the end...if she's one of those girls that likes being treated like dirt, then she isn't for me. Knowing a thing (it will end in disaster) and doing a thing (getting my game on and waiting) are very different things. Yeah, I'm going to fight back.

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    Default Re: Beaten to it - too hot to miss out on

    Brilliant. Cheers, Swagman. Yes, I always respect my ladies, they're not meat - and many come back of thier own accord later, when things aren't so good elsewhere. He is doing 'treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen' - but it's her (and not me) that is going to look foolish when it inevitably goes wrong. Love the 'outcome dependant' line, you're so right there - once I'm genuinely indifferent I know things will change. Truth is, I started to think of her as a long term prospect, maybe lost a little vision. Keep the wisdom coming, mate.

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    Default Re: Beaten to it - too hot to miss out on

    Oh, what a lovely guy he is....today he said to me 'You know if you need to talk to somebody, buddy, I'm right here for you''

    Doesn't he know I'm thinking about cutting his head off with a dull spoon? (Yes, I know, I've got to break that thought pattern immediately) Jealousy,ouch!

    'Thanks, man, I'm fine, I have plenty of friends' I replied.

    The girl turned up dressed like a hooker today (very unlike her, usually very smart straight, which I like)...more make up than ever, high heels, short dress (it's freezing cold here)...aaaaagggghhh !


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