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Thread: Tame Your Game?

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    Default Tame Your Game?

    Hi Community Members,

    This is my first post in about 5 years, maybe more, when I started becoming more inactive from the scene. As I begin to reenter, I pose a new topic for discussion: when, if ever, is it time to "tame your game?"

    I have been on countless pickups, and as I progressed, I realized that more girls start to ask me, "Are you a player?," "You are too smooth," etc. In fact, it started happening enough that I would intentionally say the wrong word just so I seemed more of an average guy and less of a polished PUA.

    Has anyone had these kinds of experiences? Do you think that you can be too good at game that you have to tame it down, or does being great at game mean intentionally flubbing in conversation (or using other methods) to not seem like a player?

    -- Thrill

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    Default Re: Tame Your Game?

    Do you think that you can be too good at game that you have to tame it down, or does being great at game mean intentionally flubbing in conversation (or using other methods) to not seem like a player?
    actually I would say that a lot of newbies are the ones who actually need to "tame their game". I know when I first started out, I would overdo it. I felt like things weren't going right unless the girl was constantly laughing at my jokes. of course it was great for when I first met a new girl, but later on in the interaction they would friend zone me because I was just a "cool funny guy" (I failed to build enough of an emotional connection to be more than a friend)

    now however, I've matured and my approach is more laid back. I learned to let the girl do more of the talking. low and behold they felt like I understood them much better when I did more listening and less talking. the ratio I now use is 60/40 (60% listening 40% talking) this makes building a connection easier, because ultimately women like the sound of their own voice. lol

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    Default Re: Tame Your Game?

    No. These are all shit tests. I've had many girls tell me I'm "too smooth" or "too good". This means nothing. Ignore and keep progressing.

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    Default Re: Tame Your Game?

    As counter intuitive as this may sound, don't back down instead ramp it up. When my game was developing I used to run into this constantly. I had issues until i stopped denying it. Now I have three responses.

    1. Look at her and in an almost confused tone ask, "Are you hassling me because I'm confident?" They will almost always back down at their ridiculous question.

    2. When I was young, I was painfully shy and talking to women intimidated me. I decided to do something about it, now I'm not intimidated by anyone. Do I intimidate you?

    3. Hell yes, I'm a player. (Super Sexual Stare and big grin) Is it working?

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    Default Re: Tame Your Game?

    I agree just ignore them! and keep doing what you're doing.

    May I ask you what are some of the fundamental lessons you learned throughout your journey with picking up women. If you don't mind me asking

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    Default Re: Tame Your Game?

    That's a good sign. Keep it up, don't qualify yourself and build comfort.
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