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    Default How to get chicks' attention on Facebook without looking like a stalker?

    I have a bunch of chicks on my friends list, whom I don't actually know, friends of friends. It was me who added them, not the other way around, so obviously they weren't exactly chasing me down.

    Anyway, I'd like to get the attention of some of them, but I obviously neither want to appear to do it on purpose, nor for them to perceive me as a stalker. Some of them have interests listed, some don't. Nevertheless, if I were to hit them up out of the blue and chat about their interests, that would look pretty stalker-ish. So how do I go about doing this?

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    On a related note, I posted this in the online game forum, but haven't gotten a reply, so I might as well ask again in here.

    Can you open a chick on FB who's NOT in your friend list? Lots of hot chicks around, many more than on any dating site. Only 99.9% of them will ignore any friend request. So any way to open them without having them in your list?

    I'm thinking most of them will have their Bitch Shield up much more than on a dating site. But on the other hand, as stated above, the supply is almost limitless. Any ideas?
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    Default Re: How to get chicks' attention on Facebook without looking like a stalker

    Just start off by liking their posts, maybe even share some stuff that they post. Basically, you're simply showing appreciation. During this time, you will also be getting a very intimate view into their personality. Be appreciative of that. Get past the looks. Show them that you dig their style.

    After awhile, you should probably feel comfortable hitting them up, paying them a compliment along the lines of "hey, I really like what you posted... do you really believe that... blah blah blah..."

    I did that to this one girl. I was vehemently arguing against a friend of mine who had a different political viewpoint and she kept liking my comments. So I added her just because she seemed cool. We started chatting. Then I found out she was a 15 year old girl. Oops. But the thing is, I still talk to her because she's pretty cool for her age. I feel like an older brother. I'm not gaming her, obviously, but I do appreciate our friendship and we give some value to one another. She may be too young for me sexually, and emotionally, but we have a cool friendship now and I'm comfortable and confident enough to just be a cool friend, older brother type, to her. It's not all about sex. Or at least it shouldn't be. And hey, having girls like that on your FB feed, who you are clearly cool with and polite too, isn't a bad thing. In a way, it lets other girls know that you aren't a creep.

    So who knows where things are going to wind up? Who knows where an honest effort to make a connection is going to lead?

    I also have a friend on FB who is my buddy's wife. We've only met face to face one or two times, but we have gotten to know each other's vibe and sometimes she messages me with cool shit that she thinks I will enjoy, and other times, I do the same. It's a really cool friendship. We give a lot of value to one another. It's funny, actually. We can sit down and chat for an hour, going back and forth, riffing off one another. But there's nothing going on. It's my buddy's wife, after all. I'm not making any moves. But she's having cool conversations with me and that actually increases my buddy's status because he has cool guys like me. So really, it's a win-win-win situation.

    Ultimately, that's what you want. You just want to be in contact with cool people. Over time, a few of those may pan out. A few may not. That's fine either way. But you want to basically have cool shit on your FB feed, and in your messages every day if possible because, well, it makes the online experience more fun and valuable. Forget getting laid for a second and just be aware of the awesomeness that occurs when you are surrounded by cool people, whether in IRL or online.
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    Default Re: How to get chicks' attention on Facebook without looking like a stalker

    And the other cool thing is that you're doing it all in the open. If this girl turned 18 and we wound up hooking up (yeah, right! I'm almost 40!), I wouldn't be some creeper sneaking in to snatch up the young girl. It'd be a friendship that's been completely out in the open for years. Completely honest, legitimate, and hey, we just happened to like each other. Totally cool and defensible. I'm not going to even suggest that that's my goal. It's really not. I don't think she's remotely close to my type now. But if it were to go that way, I wouldn't feel shady about it at all because I've been completely open from the beginning.

    That is the one cool thing about FB friendships... all your friends can see exactly what's going on. And either you're being a decent person, or you aren't. If you are, there's no shame and nothing to hide. If you aren't, well then word is going to get around and you'll get called out. And in that case, you probably deserve it.
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    Default Re: How to get chicks' attention on Facebook without looking like a stalker

    Thanks for the input Blackbird, much appreciated. Common sense points which should be obvious, but I suppose I've been so blinded by trying to get laid that I didn't think about them myself. Kudos!
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    Thumbs up Re: How to get chicks' attention on Facebook without looking like a stalker

    Why do you want stalk on facebook when you can use online dating sites? Women are more willing to go on a date with strangers on dating sites. Don't be creepy. There are some good reviews you can read before subscribing on one of those.


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