Re: How to get chicks' attention on Facebook without looking like a stalker
Just start off by liking their posts, maybe even share some stuff that they post. Basically, you're simply showing appreciation. During this time, you will also be getting a very intimate view into their personality. Be appreciative of that. Get past the looks. Show them that you dig their style.
After awhile, you should probably feel comfortable hitting them up, paying them a compliment along the lines of "hey, I really like what you posted... do you really believe that... blah blah blah..."
I did that to this one girl. I was vehemently arguing against a friend of mine who had a different political viewpoint and she kept liking my comments. So I added her just because she seemed cool. We started chatting. Then I found out she was a 15 year old girl. Oops. But the thing is, I still talk to her because she's pretty cool for her age. I feel like an older brother. I'm not gaming her, obviously, but I do appreciate our friendship and we give some value to one another. She may be too young for me sexually, and emotionally, but we have a cool friendship now and I'm comfortable and confident enough to just be a cool friend, older brother type, to her. It's not all about sex. Or at least it shouldn't be. And hey, having girls like that on your FB feed, who you are clearly cool with and polite too, isn't a bad thing. In a way, it lets other girls know that you aren't a creep.
So who knows where things are going to wind up? Who knows where an honest effort to make a connection is going to lead?
I also have a friend on FB who is my buddy's wife. We've only met face to face one or two times, but we have gotten to know each other's vibe and sometimes she messages me with cool shit that she thinks I will enjoy, and other times, I do the same. It's a really cool friendship. We give a lot of value to one another. It's funny, actually. We can sit down and chat for an hour, going back and forth, riffing off one another. But there's nothing going on. It's my buddy's wife, after all. I'm not making any moves. But she's having cool conversations with me and that actually increases my buddy's status because he has cool guys like me. So really, it's a win-win-win situation.
Ultimately, that's what you want. You just want to be in contact with cool people. Over time, a few of those may pan out. A few may not. That's fine either way. But you want to basically have cool shit on your FB feed, and in your messages every day if possible because, well, it makes the online experience more fun and valuable. Forget getting laid for a second and just be aware of the awesomeness that occurs when you are surrounded by cool people, whether in IRL or online.
Hypnotist, NLP geek. I've done: Tao of Badass, Hacking Attraction, How To Date Multiple Women (Pellicer's stuff), Get the Girl, How to Talk to Hot Women, No Strings Attached (Mehow's stuff), and now I'm getting into RSD's stuff. I don't go out a lot, but I kill it when challenged