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Thread: Keep Failing 1st dates...advice please

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    Default Re: Keep Failing 1st dates...advice please

    I'm at a loss of words here. Did you try contacting her? If you kissed her and she totally went silent I really don't know what you're doing wrong. I've never had a date, where I kissed the girl, and I never saw her again.

    Look at the positives. Number one you're getting allot of girls from online to meet you in person. That's REALLY hard! Honestly, if you've been on these dates recently, you should probably write a thread on how you're doing it. Most guys can barely ever get a number online, let alone get the girl to see them. Number two, at least you kissed the girl this time. That's a huge step in the right direction! If you would have kissed the other girls as well I'm almost positive you would have gotten date 2's from at least some of them.

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    Default Re: Keep Failing 1st dates...advice please

    This is my fail number 7 in a row lol
    nothings wrong with failure. it teaches patience, persistence and perseverance.

    I lost count of how many times I've failed. (and yes I have kissed a lot more girls than I've farked) complete success is never a sure thing unless you're rich and famous.

    Number one you're getting allot of girls from online to meet you in person.
    this is true. you've had more success with online dating than I have. (either you're just better looking than me, or your text game just rocks. maybe both?) I would love to see some of the text conversations you're having with these girls.
    maybe you can give us some solid advice for online dating.

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    Default Re: Keep Failing 1st dates...advice please

    Thank you all. I'm definitely not taking it personal, and I'm proud of where I am now. Definitely kissing is a huge step toward the right direction. I guess I have to keep failing 1st dates until I figure it out myself.

    I will definitely write a post of what I do for online gaming. I met more than 12 girls online. I'm an average looking guy, but definitely my pictures are solid. My text game i think is really good and it's getting even better. I'm just worried that my texts are greater than who I am in person. (Maybe I'm more flirty/cocky funny over texts than on the date). I'm going to work on being flirty more in person and maybe narrow down my texts game to see how the results will be. I also need to check on couple other things to be more efficient and faster with pulling out girls from dating website. Once I finish them I will make a full detailed post of what works and what doesn't work

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    Default Re: Keep Failing 1st dates...advice please

    Once I finish them I will make a full detailed post of what works and what doesn't work
    cool deal, when you finish your post about online dating advice, shoot me a pm with the link to it so I don't miss it.

    thanks,

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    Default Re: Keep Failing 1st dates...advice please

    i won't reiterate everyone's comments about how good your online game is and how k-closing and so many dates is better than most guys. i just wanted to mention a couple things:

    1. it isn't necessarily you this time. maybe she has a bf or another guys she's been seeing. maybe something tragic happened in her personal life. maybe she lost/broke her phone. that said, you should still strive to improve your game.
    2. at least in the US, it is definitely not illegal for you to record your conversations or interactions with others, provided that you don't use the recording to publicly humiliate or cause financial loss to her. you could look up the law online if you're that curious. recording your next interaction would actually be a good idea provided that you are very careful about where you send it and don't use it for it bad purposes.

    the more dates you go on, the better you'll get. keep at it.


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