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    Default inviting myself over...?

    So I'm going on 1st date with a girl. If there's enough chemistry, I want to take my chance and sleep with her. The problem is that I don't live by myself....I'm wondering how I can invite myself over to her place in a casual way...

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    Default Re: inviting myself over...?

    It's generally better to always have a girl come over your place. If you can't have guests over, the next best places to sleep with her are either your car, a neutral location and then finally her place. Find out her logistics to see if it makes sense to pull back to her place and pre-seed the pull with some justification like you were thinking about getting a place in the area and want to check out her place.
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    Default Re: inviting myself over...?

    Thank you this is a good response really, but there are some points you mentioned that are not clear to me.
    -How do you make a move on her in the car? (it's hard for me to imagine it since both will be sitting and maybe have the seat belt around lol (also do you open the door car for her, or that is too cheesy)
    -I really like the idea about having justification to go into her place..let's say I'm dropping her off in front of her place,so using your example, I would say "hey I'm thinking about getting a place in the area, so let me check your place"? I feel this would scare her haha... can I say something like "hey let me walk you to your place it's dark" or "I need to go to bathroom"...you think that will work?

    (I'm focusing more on the wording and how to say it because I'm not a native speaker, and sometimes saying even simple things could sound creepy)

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    Default Re: inviting myself over...?

    First date, a? I mean, a girl will value more if you give her time.

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    Default Re: inviting myself over...?

    I'm talking about taking my role as a man who should take things to the next level.

    What you said, theoretically, is correct. But in reality, taking things slow (or not pushing forward) means I'm moving backward and interest level will decline. After the date, most girls will remember that nothing happened in the date, and feels "hmm maybe I should just be friend with that guy"

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    Default Re: inviting myself over...?

    Quote Originally Posted by vassino View Post
    Thank you this is a good response really, but there are some points you mentioned that are not clear to me.
    -How do you make a move on her in the car? (it's hard for me to imagine it since both will be sitting and maybe have the seat belt around lol (also do you open the door car for her, or that is too cheesy)
    -I really like the idea about having justification to go into her place..let's say I'm dropping her off in front of her place,so using your example, I would say "hey I'm thinking about getting a place in the area, so let me check your place"? I feel this would scare her haha... can I say something like "hey let me walk you to your place it's dark" or "I need to go to bathroom"...you think that will work?

    (I'm focusing more on the wording and how to say it because I'm not a native speaker, and sometimes saying even simple things could sound creepy)
    can anyone reply to me please

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    Default Re: inviting myself over...?

    Dude, you can unbuckle it easily. Having sex in the car is so challenging it becomes sexy. Bro, if you got the vibe and your kissing you'll probably be kissing in the car as well. So go from there.

    No that won't scare her. Don't worry bro, you're in your head too much.
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    Default Re: inviting myself over...?

    Vassino, in my younger days I used to get lots of action in my car .... I had this great Lincoln Continental with a huge back seat , used to park in front of the yacht club over looking the harbor to "talk", put on some music, and in a few minuets be making out, as we were making out I would eventually reach down and rub the girls vajay jay to gauge her interest in going further ..... if she removed my hand we would just make out but if she didn't it would go to the back seat and I would get a blanket out of the trunk, back seat was big enough that we could both lay down and do our thing. I used to always joke about how I could live in the car if I had to ....... fun times for sure ..... I just hope you don't have a tiny little Japanese import because then it might be a bit more difficult ..... but go for it and GL
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    Default Re: inviting myself over...?

    drgnsfire12 is right. You can escalate for the kiss and even fully close if you have enough privacy. Of course the best location for a pull is your place. After that, It's better to close her in your own car than in her place because you have more control. If you can't close in your car, try to pull to a neutral location or use any justification to get to her place. Sometimes it doesn't even have to make sense. If she likes you enough and you are casual about it, you can pull for whatever reason. Just make sure you kiss her before you pull to set a precedent.
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    Default Re: inviting myself over...?

    I think I was too much in my head. I will definitely try it in the car and see what happens
    Thank you all!


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