Re: How do you have a girlfriend/boyfriend?
I've had a few girlfriends before, so I can answer these questions.
If you're referring to human contact, it doesn't have to be every day. However, if this isn't a long distance relationship, it shouldn't be once a week either. Really hanging out once every 2 or 3 days is very good. If we're talking about texting, you don't wait that long to text. You should always be trying to text her regularly, every day, with message response rates ranging from 20 minutes to two hours.
Just like in PUA, it should alternate. It should never be only one person doing it all the time. Try to keep things 50/50.
The minimum is an hour. A date should not be less than that, because it should be a special time of bonding.
Calling is still VERY appropriate for relationships, no matter what the distance between you two is, and it very much applies to all forms of communication.
Honesty. Honesty always works best. Just tell her how you feel and that you want to be her boyfriend.
In relationships, power is meant to be shared between you two. No one of you should ever hold all the power in a relationship. That's when you end up with a very unhealthy relationship. Power is simply maintained by saying yes, saying no, and compromising in moderation.
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