Re: does this annoy anyone else?
dragon is right, you have at least tried to invite yourself over. Alternatively, you could have decided to ask her where the house party was and "act" like you are in the area and invite yourself over there as well. Don't frame things as her giving you hints she doesn't want to hang out. Girls will naturally have plans. Ask her what her schedule is like and set a time to see her and game her from there.
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