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    Default does this annoy anyone else?

    Met a girl two days ago on plenty of fish. Asked her what her weekend is usually like, she said she's not the typical party girl. Doesn't like to go out cuz she's 19 and is scared of getting caught. Got her number a day later. Texted her today and asked if she had plans. She said her friends were busy and she was gonna sit at home by herself and make dessert. After hearing that, I figured she didn't want to hang which was no big deal. I made plans with my friends and went on about my night. About 11:30 pm I texted her and asked her how dessert making went. She said she didn't make dessert and was out hopping around house parties because that sounded better. Is this some sort of red flag?

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    Default Re: does this annoy anyone else?

    The red flag is when the girl told you she was sitting home by herself you didn't try to get invited over so that in the end you went out with your friends and she went out house party hopping

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    Default Re: does this annoy anyone else?

    I realize that now but she also mentioned in a later text that she just wanted a day to herself. And I thought that was a hint that she didn't want to meet up just yet. We'll see what happens later.

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    Default Re: does this annoy anyone else?

    Well since she said she was going to stay at home and make dessert , you should have told her that you make a great lime Jello that she just has to try :-)

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    Default Re: does this annoy anyone else?

    Should I try again or should I move on?

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    Default Re: does this annoy anyone else?

    dragon is right, you have at least tried to invite yourself over. Alternatively, you could have decided to ask her where the house party was and "act" like you are in the area and invite yourself over there as well. Don't frame things as her giving you hints she doesn't want to hang out. Girls will naturally have plans. Ask her what her schedule is like and set a time to see her and game her from there.
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    Default Re: does this annoy anyone else?

    There's looking backward and looking forward. Looking backward, I won't repeat the other comments about what you should've done. Now you know that should've tried to see her (I also would've said something about making desserts although I'm way more about chocolate than jello). Also, her going out after saying that she wanted to stay in is not a red flag here. In fact, it's the opposite. **Tons of girls say that they don't like going out even though they do because they don't wanna look like sluts.** She went bar hopping with her friends, which means she and her friends (birds of a feather flock together) like to go out. **She wanted to look like a good girl to you because she's at least somewhat interested in you. This is a good sign. It's only a red flag if you want a relationship with her because she's deceptive, but if you just want a casual, fun time with her, go for it.**

    Now it's time to look forward. If she really was completely disinterested in you, she would be ignoring you. The fact that she's still responding means that you're in the game. U gotta reopen conversation with her. I would go cocky funny (that's my personal style), but if she's a bit sensitive or if you haven't built enough rapport yet, you might wanna open more gently with her. Remember, she's only 19 and inexperienced, so don't come down on her too hard, but that also leaves you lots of open room to "show her the ropes," especially if you know bouncers/doormen who would let her in; slipping a $20 always helps. After some conversation, you could say something like, "You made the right choice to go out. It's fun to stay home to cook, but that's a two-person project, not a solo job. Maybe I'll show you how to make a mouth-watering dessert if you play your cards right ;-P ."

    Looking further ahead: **This kind of chick who likes to act like a good girl but really isn't is exactly the kind of girl to whom you say, when you're already out with her and having a good time: "You know, you seem to act like a good girl, but I can see a little naughty bad ass in you."** That's how you unleash the beast within her that she's trying to hide.

    Good luck moving forward.


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