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    Default is she stringing me along or what?

    Ok I met this girl a few months back, and I created attraction on the first day. This happened four months back to be precise. since then we have been seeing each other , I kiss her every time I see her.
    The problem is that this girl has a problem with people touching her as a result this makes our kisses sometimes awkward as they don't happen naturally. and it makes it very difficult to transition into sex hence we haven't done it yet. The reason I'm still around is because she is pretty as fvck. but it is frustrating when I don't know where I stand with her, and iv tried telling her I wanna stop this but she keeps asking me to stay. .. I developed feelings for her and I think she knows it, recently she told me she likes me and I'm not fazed by it, has anyone been in this situation before and does anyone know what this means?

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    Default Re: is she stringing me along or what?

    Rough man. I haven't completely figured this part out myself. But they are a good challenge for us.

    I'm a firm believer that every woman has at least one romantic interest in her life. So if she isn't with you then it's someone else. Maybe an ex. Not saying she isn't with you. Just saying to take notice if she's just too nonchalant.

    Maybe your game needs to go to another level. A level that's very risky. What most people are drawn to is conflict. We are natural problem solvers. So you have to be the puzzle she wants to solve. Sometimes that involves putting her on an emotional roller coaster. A man that can get a woman to experience different emotions has a hook in her indeed.

    This is all just guess work. I don't have a good answer to what is going on with her internally. Hope this helps and good luck.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: is she stringing me along or what?

    Speaking of problem solving maybe you need to find out why she doesn't like people touching her and work on solving that issue
    "The purpose of our lives is to be happy" - his Holiness the Dalai Llama of Tibet

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    Default Re: is she stringing me along or what?

    It is obvious that she has some serious issue. Next time try to avoid any physical contact and just talk to her. Maybe this girl has some bad experience from the past. If you like her give her a time to start trust you and share problems or secrets. Don't be pushy though. Make her feel relaxed in your company and then try to say something like: Hey, you know I like your company a lot right? You are a nice girl and just talking to you makes me feel great but I would like to hold your hand and hug you, kiss you more. I would like this relationship to go to a next level. However, I want you to feel controfable and that is why I would be happy if you have something to share with me that you do that. Is there any specific reason why you don't like to be touched? Maybe I can help?

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    Default Re: is she stringing me along or what?

    yes, this girl is stringing you along. It sounds like shes using you for validation, and hasn't picked you as a sexual mate. If you have hung out with her more than four times and have not had sex, then she is definitely bargaining with you. My advice: put her on a slow simmer and walk away. Go out and meet new and interesting ladies, but keep some contact with this girl. Best of luck.

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    Default Re: is she stringing me along or what?

    Some girls just need more comfort and time than others. Calibrate to her behavior. Don't needlessly validate her. Have you tried pulling her yet and encounter any LMR ?
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