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    Default Becoming a funnier and better conversationalist

    I get dates sometimes, but sometimes I think I bore them. What's the best way to be less boring and become a funnier and more interesting conversationalist, especially with strangers? Some ideas in my head:

    1) Go out and practice. Just start talking to people in public places, regardless of whether or not they are HB10's.
    2) Pick a role model and emulate (James Bond, comedians, any one known to be good with women or funny).
    3) Become a person who you find interesting. This is similar to 2) above, but different. If you have interests or hobbies, run wild with them. Explore new places, ideas, and interests. If you become a genuinely interesting person, it will show in your conversations, when on dates, when out, etc.
    4) Listen deeply and ask questions you're genuinely curious about.

    What else would facilitate becoming funnier, more interesting, and better at talking to women you don't know?

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    Default Re: Becoming a funnier and better conversationalist

    Your first and last points are spot on. You'll get a lot better with more practice and repetition. If you want to pick a role model, you should befriend actual guys you see in clubs who get the hot women you want and emulate them. Offer any value you can so they will help you and you can hang around with them and get into their social circle. Everybody's favorite topic is themselves so you just need to start qualifying the girl to talk about herself and build commonalities. Break rapport to spark attraction and create laughter. Also traveling more and having more experiences will make you a more interesting and attractive person and have more things to relate and talk about.
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    Default Re: Becoming a funnier and better conversationalist

    To be honest, my banter was barely passable before I started watching the RSD guys. Seeing the type of shit they say early in the interaction just completely opened my mind. I realized that I can literally say whatever pops into my head and, odds are, it will be silly and funny and build attraction. I was doing this the other day and told a girl that I'm the king of the jungle, like a lion, but I come out and enjoy the night like a... uhhh.. like a frog. You see, yes, I'm like a frog too. And we all know what happens when you kiss a frog... I had that girl absolutely rolling on the floor. It was perhaps the stupidest shit ever to come out of my mouth. It didn't even make sense. And she loved it.

    I think the key to getting good, not just in banter, but all the way through the interaction is practicing being the guy who can just remove the filter from his thoughts and words and just let them fly. It just takes time and practice.
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    Default Re: Becoming a funnier and better conversationalist

    Blackbird, what's RSD. Not familiar with that acronym.
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    Default Re: Becoming a funnier and better conversationalist

    Real Social Dynamics. Tyler Durden & Co. they have lots of stuff on youtube of varying quality, though I've been less than impressed with their paid content over all.

    And while their forum is active, its full of a ton of macho internet posturing. It's almost unbearable. so I hang out here.

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    Default Re: Becoming a funnier and better conversationalist

    Quote Originally Posted by backinthegame91 View Post
    I get dates sometimes, but sometimes I think I bore them. What's the best way to be less boring and become a funnier and more interesting conversationalist, especially with strangers? Some ideas in my head:

    1) Go out and practice. Just start talking to people in public places, regardless of whether or not they are HB10's.
    2) Pick a role model and emulate (James Bond, comedians, any one known to be good with women or funny).
    3) Become a person who you find interesting. This is similar to 2) above, but different. If you have interests or hobbies, run wild with them. Explore new places, ideas, and interests. If you become a genuinely interesting person, it will show in your conversations, when on dates, when out, etc.
    4) Listen deeply and ask questions you're genuinely curious about.

    What else would facilitate becoming funnier, more interesting, and better at talking to women you don't know?
    First off, you are interesting and funny, have that mindset. If someone isn't having fun around you the fault is probably theirs and why should you even give a fuck about people who don't find you interesting?

    1- You seriously only talked to HB 10 's before? Just talk to everyone and when a girl sees something she likes she'll give you a sign to approach her/ get closer to her.

    2- You should be your own role model.

    3- 100 % agreed. Just go out and do your thing, live your life, be happy and people will gravitate towards you.

    4- Again agreed. Sometimes people ask me how can I make a genuine connection with a girl. it's easy, you actually have to be interested in each other, no gimmicks, no bull shit.

    I'd probably say make statements and assumptions rather than keep asking questions, nod your head while they speak, keep open body language and strong eye contact, when they close a thread say oh that's interesting or cool or anything to make them feel what they said matters. When you throw your third qualifier add to it, I should get paid by the hour to listen to you, I'm not your psych . Note that you do not throw that if she has low self esteem. You can just tell if she has.
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    Default Re: Becoming a funnier and better conversationalist

    Quote Originally Posted by Blackbird View Post
    Real Social Dynamics. Tyler Durden & Co.
    Any chance you could point out some of their better ones? I'd really appreciate it, thanks!
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