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    Default Shy girl i really but she's giving me mixed signals..help

    Hi guys, There's a shy girl in my college that has been on my radar for a while now, shes very beautiful carries herself with integrity, dresses modestly; even though she has been well blessed with one hell of a body, she's quiet and she's always with her girls (I've known her for close to 6 months now and I've never actually even seen her with another guy other than myself).

    I'll apologize in advance for the long explanation but it's really disturbing my mind cos i really do like her and i would want a real relationship with her, dropping out all my other girls for her.

    Basically i like her a lot now and i'm certain she likes me too, her friends giggle when they see me and her together or when i come up to her and hug her, and from what I've seen so far she's a really good girl, like she has one hell of an amazing body but the girl wears jumpers and clothing that never actually reveals her body, she stays covered up.

    So anyway right now me and her are at a point where i think she got really jealous after seeing me with my female bestie in the library, and naturally me and my bestie really hit it off so that must have made her feel some type of way and that's the point where she started acting funny towards me.
    It's like she tries to refrain herself from showing emotions to me but when i call out to her or give her attention she can't hold back the smiles and she always gives me her full body attention i'm normally the one who isn't facing her.

    so anyway after she saw me with my bestie i saw her with one of her friends outside and i approached them and to cut a long story short i basically asked her out for valentines day, as a first date and she declined, then right after i asked her for her number and she declined that again.

    So anyway after a week of not seeing her, i saw her in the library but i didn't approach her instead i went about my business for like 5 mins and left the library and like 3 mins later she comes out of the library too into the hallway and walks in the direction i was standing and her eyes caught my eyes for a second and all i could see in her eyes and face was frustration directed at me, then she looked diagonally down and tried to walk by me

    So i gently grab her elbow and she turns around now with a genuine gentle smile on her face (it was so beautiful) and the moment she turns she faces me with her whole body and takes a step closer and attempts open her arms to give me a hug but she realized my arms weren't even open so she giggles a little nervously and looks away and looks right back at me then i ask her "you alright" then she says "yeah i'm fine thank you" stil smiling at me and as she's going she opens the double doors and she's still letting her body face me and for as long as possible before going through the doors.

    See that section was filled with so much IoIs help i'm getting a little confused

    What would you suggest i do? where do you think her mind's at currently?

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    Default Re: Shy girl i really but she's giving me mixed signals..help

    What do you do ?????? Ummmmmm here's an idea , you stop screwing around and you ask her out ....... and by the way, you have oneitis, not judging , just saying ...... GL
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    Default Re: Shy girl i really but she's giving me mixed signals..help

    She is a bit confused too, it seems. However, she likes you. So, call her out again. Even though if she rejects as so far, just ask her what is the problem and why she doesn't want to go out. You can suggest some friendly date, nothing she should feel uncomfortable about.

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    Default Re: Shy girl i really but she's giving me mixed signals..help

    I asked her out on the Thursday before Valentines day, she said she was "busy" and I asked her for her number and she said she doesn't like giving out her number declined that too. I did kinda ask her out in front of her friend and it was after they had seen me with my female bestie messing around earlier so she must have got really jealous and the fact that her friends saw it too didn't really help my case, but i'll attempt to do it again and yeah i actually do think i have the oneitis it's healthy for me anyway, it's been too long since i actually had deep feelings for a girl thanks dfire

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    Default Re: Shy girl i really but she's giving me mixed signals..help

    yea i think i should put point out the fact that a know the majority of the girls in my college and a lot of them do get real "friendly" with me , so that would make her feel some type of way, so that may be the cause of her confusion?

    As a matter of fact i saw her again today, she was walking with two of her friends and when she saw me at a distance away she looked flustered and stopped in her tracks and started taking smaller steps i waved at her and went about my business.

    Then i saw her again at the canteen she was with her girls, she saw me and sat upright and fixed her posture so i went up to her shook both of her friends hands and said hi to them and gave her a hug proceeding to sway hi to almost everyone else as a canteen, i'm pretty well known in college, then i left the canteen and went to sit down beside a glass door with one of my boys just chillin, then i hear a knock on the glass i turn around at it was the 3 of them just walking, my friend said it was one of her friends that knocked on the glass and pretended she didn't do it (probably to get my attention cos her friend was there) i don't react to it and keep chillin'

    so anyway end of college i'm about to leave then i see them walking my way her two friends are smiling at me and she avoids me looking down and walks past me, i call her name 3 times before she turns around and looks at me and she gives me a really soft smile and waves at me after i wave at her.

    i think she has me over analyzing things right now lool she has me hooked haha j/k but anyway the more detail i give the better

    Thanks fancy

    and i'll take your advise and try to ask her but she's normally with her friends and she's so shy i think even taking her away from her friends would be nerve-wrecking for her

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    Default Re: Shy girl i really but she's giving me mixed signals..help

    Ask her to go get coffee with you ... that’s not intimidating, it's not really a date, there is no pressure and you get to isolate her ...... for me, I would be a little bit of a dick and ask her friend out but then again I always like to do the unexpected
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    Default Re: Shy girl i really but she's giving me mixed signals..help

    Ask all three of them out. obviously.
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