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Thread: Is it too late for me?

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    Default Is it too late for me?

    I have been having brief "classmate conversations" with this female classmate throughout this school quarter. Those conversations consist of homework, assignments, exams, etc.

    I treated her out for lunch last week, which is the 4th to the last week of the quarter. We talked about school, life, past relationships, etc. She did mention she was recently dating a guy during Valentines Day. She said that he has became to attached to her and has said "I love you" too early for her liking.

    I have this week and next week for lecture. Then the week after next week is finals week then it is spring break. I might have another class with her next quarter.

    I am interested in having a long term relationship with her. I will probably be quite busy this week and next week studying and doing term papers. Should I somehow squeeze in another meeting with her to run a bf destroyer or something like that? What is the next step? Maybe I have displayed too much of a "classmate behavior" to see me as a potential bf?

    Is it too late for me?

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    Default Re: Is it too late for me?

    Sitting around and talking about school, life, past relationships, etc is going to put you into the buddy zone. You need to flirt and build attraction or you will become the go to guy when she wants to talk about her boyfriend .... GL
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    Default Re: Is it too late for me?

    I am assuming it is too late to salvage anything from this female?

    Should just read up on the "Running Sets And Building Attraction" part of this forum to learn how to flirt and build attraction? Just upon skimming, i see a lot of bootcamp reviews and "magic tricks". Is that what i am supposed to be doing? Suppose i can't afford to go to these bootcamps?

    Sorry for the amount of questions. I am new to this stuff.

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    Default Re: Is it too late for me?

    drgnsfire12 is right. You need to be more flirtatious and break rapport to build attraction. Set up time to see her outside of class and game her normally and escalate.
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    Default Re: Is it too late for me?

    Maybe I can setup something this Thursday or Friday.

    Any idea/tips or forum threads on how to break rapport, flirt, build attraction, and escalate?

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    Default Re: Is it too late for me?

    Listen to WillEd and be more flirtatious and break rapport and also forget about the "magic tricks" unless you are looking to become the next Kreskin .... if you need help with flirting check this out


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    Default Re: Is it too late for me?

    UPDATE: She was not in class that Monday, so i couldn't set up anything. She came back on Wednesday, and she treated me out for lunch. I think it is too late for me. During that lunch, I got too much of "friends going out for lunch" vibe. I am probably over her and going to move on. I guess she will just be a good friend next quarter.

    How do i prevent this from happening again? Is there a certain order that i am suppose to follow like rapport then attraction or is it the other around?

    Btw thank you for the help so far WillEdward and drgnsfire12!


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