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Thread: Charming/Kiss up ?

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    Default Charming/Kiss up ?

    When I was younger like 14-16 I use to sweet talk women. By that I mean call them beautiful and say things like "you look so beautiful this morning, you're the only girl for me." They always worked but I got older and I just hate how some guys do that and lie to girls... IT WORKS though. Question here is this, is that method good or bad? To my moral standing I just can't do it anymore, but it works!! Lol what are you guys thought on this?
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    Default Re: Charming/Kiss up ?

    i find it works to a certain extent but dont lay it on 2 thick i find backing off and being more mysterious works a little better

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    Default Re: Charming/Kiss up ?

    Alright I get you, but in my opinion won't that be dlv because that requires you to basically put her above yourself and just kiss up to her. Kind of needy and beta in my opinion. Am I wtong?
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    Default Re: Charming/Kiss up ?

    I don't lie to girls unless it is an outlandish lie to break rapport and they know it. I usually go indirect / situational but I will go direct if I'm really attracted to the girl and they are usually receptive because I am genuine and confident.
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    Default Re: Charming/Kiss up ?

    Ok I've seen guys act mean and I've seen guys act more oculus to their being and I always see the mean guy go further with females then the nice guy I'm a newbie so what's the deal... Can either plan of action work or does being mean or not too mean work better like ignor them don't chase let them chase u

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    Default Re: Charming/Kiss up ?

    I wouldn't call it smooth talk if it is congruent with who I am. For example, the girls I am seeing seem to understand I have other girls without me saying it. I do not fool them into thinking otherwise that they are the only one. I do not make any promises. I think I smooth talk when the girls start asking me if I see them more than as sexual desire. And I don't lie, the girls I have sex with, I usually like their personality or whatever clicks. The girls I do not feel the same way, I don't lead them down that road. Morally, I am finding myself in the game of Pick Up.

    If you are using smooth talk to get girls to sleep with you doing the following

    "Omg, I only want you in my life"
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    "I can't see myself with any other girl, you are amazing"


    If that is the smooth talk you are talking about...then yes, that to me is pretty deceptive. Especially if you are going about banging other girls.

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    Default Re: Charming/Kiss up ?

    I concur with you on that I believe they should know I have two right now and we actually r setting up a threesome I love it

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    Default Re: Charming/Kiss up ?

    If she's beautiful it's not lying. I LOVE sweet talking women. It makes them FEEL GOOD. The key for me is to do with with a big smile on my face. They get a kick out of it but they know I'm not being super serious. I like to do it when I go to the bar with a group of female friends. "Look at how lucky I am. I'm here, at this bar, with the best looking girls in the place. I feel like a stud right now (big smile)." It doesn't matter if they are the best looking girls in the place. That's not the point. The point is to make them feel good because you're hanging out with them. That's called being charming.

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    Default Re: Charming/Kiss up ?

    But I also find not putting them on a pedestal makes them squirm and they really want u more because ur taking charge of the situation ignoring them like they r just ok and they should feel privaliged to be with u but when the time is right then u give them compliments if it happens to soon u could lose them


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