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    Default Ex Gf seeking revenge?

    Hey guys,

    I need some help on how to proceed from here,

    Over the weekend I had joined tinder and yes I was bound to be matched with someone I know due to where I live, etc ... Anyway, I foolishly forgot to put my settings from public to private so I don't appear to potential matches but still come up for existing matches,

    Now here comes the problem like I mentioned at the start. It was bound for to happen that i'll pop up on somebody's tinder who knows me. The only thing is I didn't know it was one of my ex gfs friend lol.

    When I ended it with my ex gf it was on a positive note (from what I remember) we moved on both of us didn't pursue each other went no contact the usual thing you do after a break up which was about 10 months ago..

    Anyway let me recap i've been on tinder 3 days and today the ex gf friend who sent a screenshot of my profile on tinder to my ex, my ex then sent it around to other people (which is how I know I was spotted on tinder) I assume for lolz but I know if I confront my ex about it. It'll make me look like I was offended she sent it to x,y or z and of course its silly to react to such a thing but it has me thinking does she want to get revenge for breaking it off with her ?

    Has anyone ever been put in a similar situation?

    Thanks for looking
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    Default Re: Ex Gf seeking revenge?

    I would just ignore it and continue doing what you're doing. Be non-reactive and laugh it off, I think it's funny lol
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    Default Re: Ex Gf seeking revenge?

    Man I loled too but where I live its frowned upon to be on tinder and stuff like that but overall I thought she was long gone but nope shes still around haha
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    Well wait, how did she find you if she wasn't ALSO on Tinder? You're a guy. You're supposed to want new girls and new experiences. The real question is... why is SHE skanking around on there?

    To put it more mildly, just laugh it off and make a joke about it... yeah, so I guess my ex wasn't having any luck in real life, so she resorted to Tinder. Then I guess she found the profile that I made on there when I was just checking it out as a joke.

    Frame control. Be non-reactive.

    My profile on Tinder makes it very clear how I use the app. I hand it to my female friends and ask them to swipe on it for me when they get bored.

    And FWIW, I'm not ashamed. I swipe right on EVERY girl that I know. If they accept, we have a good laugh about it. If they decline, I assume that they must be too ashamed of being sketchy skanks to actually say hello to me. Hahaha...
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    @Blackbird her friend who is on tinder screenshotted my profile and sent it to her lol I later received the screenshot of me on it (from a friend) and knew it was her friend straight away from seeing her on it too

    But then again to answer your question, I have no clue to why shes poking her head around it the only two conclusions I had been able to draw was she wanted me to react so she could get a laugh or she wants me to speak to her but neither of them options will ever happen so I see it as a pointless attempt

    Also i've no problem with online dating at all nor I give a sh*t about people looking down on me cause I use it, cause everyone at one point in their life will use such a thing regardless if they actually use tinder or not.

    I swipe right one every girl too its a great tactic wouldn't you agree?
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    Quote Originally Posted by kylemc View Post
    @Blackbird her friend who is on tinder screenshotted my profile and sent it to her lol I later received the screenshot of me on it (from a friend) and knew it was her friend straight away from seeing her on it too
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    I swipe right one every girl too its a great tactic wouldn't you agree?
    Well, even if she wasn't on Tinder herself, you can still say that and just play dumb, like you didn't realize it wasn't her. Whether it was her account or not, she's still playing some lame-ass chick games that you need to assume are beneath you. At the very least she associates with people who use it. Either way, she's just playing stupid chick games. And besides, maybe you should thank her. Because of her, there's now however many new girls who now know you're available! Basically, she did you a favor!

    As for swiping strategies on Tinder, it depends on how your life is going. I'm not trying to sound above you here, but to be honest, I'm not going to swipe right on anyone I find completely unattractive. The time it takes to open the app and unmatch her isn't worth it. Sure, maybe it's faster just to swipe right fast and not bother to load the pictures at all, but the time I spend on Tinder (which isn't much) is mostly spent with the mindset of "Well let's look at some pretty girls and be amused for a bit..." But even that isn't a particularly healthy mindset, tbh. So I keep those efforts down to a bare minimum and only swipe on the people I'd actually respond to.

    Besides, getting some NSHB3 (not so hot babe 3)'s hopes up seems a little rude to me. It's not ALL about numbers.
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    So let me see if I got this right, you are on a public dating site and your ex sent a screen shot of your profile to x,y or z ?!?!?!?!?!
    And this a problem why ? Are you embarrassed by your profile ? Are you embarrassed being on Tinder ? ........ I don't get it


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    Oh shit! What'd you do with the toast, man?
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    I ate it of course, I ain't wasting toast .............. lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by drgnsfire12 View Post
    So let me see if I got this right, you are on a public dating site and your ex sent a screen shot of your profile to x,y or z ?!?!?!?!?!
    And this a problem why ? Are you embarrassed by your profile ? Are you embarrassed being on Tinder ? ........ I don't get it


    by the way I had a problem this morning .... I burnt the toast to my breakfast .
    No im not embarrassed but where I live its frowned upon to be on such things. I dont really care all as I was looking for a answer to do since I heard my ex gf's friend sent it to my ex then I heard my ex was sending it around. As suggested above not to react if it comes up though laugh it off which I can do

    I thank everyone who replied to the thread
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