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    Mr. Assertive is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Girl said in a couple of months she expects exlusivity....

    I have been seeing this girl for two months and she knows I have other girls. However, just last night she said "I kinda think 6 months from now is a good idea to get a little more serious. I think by that time you should drop all your hoes, because it is driving me crazy."


    I just played it off...

    She has brought up the fact that I am seeing other girls a month ago...but I stuck to my guns, kept it multiple girls. Is there anything I should know that I can do here. I like to keep her around but I don't think I will be ready for a monogamous relationship for awhile. If worse comes to worse..we both move on

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    Default Re: Girl said in a couple of months she expects exlusivity....

    You don't have to do anything you don't want to. Tell her that you're not ready for a relationship yet. Like you said, the worst that can happen is you two going your separate ways.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Girl said in a couple of months she expects exlusivity....

    I think thats a huge Red flag !!!!!!!!

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    Default Re: Girl said in a couple of months she expects exlusivity....

    Oh, I like her personality, but I asked her to get her life together. She has ADHD and it is clear that is influencing her life. So, I kinda am on the fence if I ever wanted to be with her down the road...and wait for it...she has two kids. She is in good shape, but who knows what can happen in the future. You are right though, it is up to me. I just been annoyed because girls try to guilt trip me into their frame.

    "Oh, I am not a type of person to see more than one person at once".

    "Oh, you are just like the other guys"

    "Oh, I wish you woud not talk to other girls, I want to see you more"

    I can only take so many bullets to the chest. My vest can't keep them all out...


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