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    Default get my ex from new man

    the short version is i dumped her over a year ago (jealous and demanding , clngy and needy)just and i got with a lovely portuguese girl . but ive been missing my ex..
    she now has a boyfriend, we have been talking daily for the last 6mnts then she stopped replying out of the blue..
    just after new years she unblocked me on facebook and then put a picture of the new guy as her profile picture then she took it off two days later.

    while i was with her (5yrs) she hated seeing my profile and blocked it two years before we split up..


    since she has unblocked me i have her new number and are talking.. a mutual friend passed...

    should i take this time to attract her back as she seems to be warming to me again ? why would she unblock me? and also give me her number ?

    Many thnaks for you replies to this ..

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    Default Re: get my ex from new man

    So let's see, your ex was jealous and demanding , clingy and needy, you got with a lovely Portuguese girl sooooooo, why do you want your ex back ????
    "The purpose of our lives is to be happy" - his Holiness the Dalai Llama of Tibet

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    Default Re: get my ex from new man

    My ex was good company apart from the neediness and the Portuguese doesn't like going out to do things together, my ex seems to have changed for the better as we been speaking again and I still have feelings for her..

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    Default Re: get my ex from new man

    I could really do with some help getting my ex out on a date again showing her I am the man for her

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    Default Re: get my ex from new man

    Well I say F*CK the BF and game her as you normally would, if you are talking to her be funny, flirty, and bold and show her that you are the guy she should be with
    "The purpose of our lives is to be happy" - his Holiness the Dalai Llama of Tibet

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    Default Re: get my ex from new man

    That's what I plan to do, my problem is she knows me very well and any change in personality could make her think I'm false.. I don't want that.. Any advice as to what I could say to pull her in... I'm not sure how close the new guy is or anything as she doesn't display anything about him on fb or anything apart from the one photo.

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    Default Re: get my ex from new man

    Forget about the BF, make it like he doesn't even exist. As for your ex, if you want to pull her in tell her that even though you've been apart you've never stopped loving her ( or caring about her if you never reached that love level)
    "The purpose of our lives is to be happy" - his Holiness the Dalai Llama of Tibet

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    Default Re: get my ex from new man

    don't come off as available to her, let her subtly know that girls are on your case and that girls do want you (bcause you're a desirable man), natural selection, Let her know that you're dating girls or whatever,but at the same time be free and open with her, do not put too much emotional weight on the interaction with her, be light and bubbly, be scarce regain your power as a man cos it sounds like you got it real bad for her haha

    I would personally never call her bf by the name if she ever tried to talk to me about it. I'd always call him "that guy" and gently direct the convo into somewhere else.

    e.g oh great you made a cake for that guy on his birthday that was pretty cool of you, hmm that reminds me i saw this pic of this totally awesome beach in hawaii, the sand is pearly white I want to see it personally for my self and i'm sure you'd love it since i know you well so we're totally going there!!

    You got yourself a Portuguese girl and you're worrying about your ex who's probably been getting banged by some other dude, her cookie must have been outta this world loooool

    stay strong bro

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    Default Re: get my ex from new man

    Thanks for all the help and support guys but I wanna say it's not all about the cookie but the girl who's underneath.. One lussy to me is pretty much the same it depends much on the feeling you get with a certain girl, ask yourselves why is one girl more important to you than another and we get to the bare bones of what it is we actually feel .. Sex is sex if Ya not feeling it, but sex with a woman you really love is AWESOME ...

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    Default Re: get my ex from new man

    I feel you, sometimes getting the girl that we actually have feelings for may mean having to do the opposite of what your feelings are trying to tell you to do bro. e.g Every time i actually really like a girl i tend to lose them eventually because i was acting off what I felt and not doing what was required to do in order to keep her ass intensely attracted to me, such as being scarce sometimes and allowing them to miss me ya know things like that. I lost one of the baddest colombian chicks you could find cos i was too emotionally involved and idk i just lost it somewhere, she's my ex now lol but in the end

    10+3 = 13
    14-1=13
    6+7=13

    different methods will work, the way i proposed is just one

    You sound like an introvert too btw, i get where you're coming from


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