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    Default Re: She says shes tired of feeling like a Booty Call....

    That was Friday. So I gave her Saturday to calm down. Then I texted her asking how her school work was going on Sunday afternoon and we had a couple back and forth texts, and she made a joke. But I only texted a couple times, thinking she would text me again later if she wanted. I set the stage of us not being mad at eachother, but I haven't heard back yet.
    Should I just wait longer?

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    Default Re: She says shes tired of feeling like a Booty Call....

    I think you're doing fine and yes, I would wait longer. I've been in similar situations before and if she mentions it again tell her the truth like Xavier said.

    The key here is that you need to be a rock. When you're with a girl long enough they will have mood swings like this. You need to be honest and lay down the law. If she's not happy with it, there's the door. With this attitude she'll stick around. When you start caving to her ridiculousness you lose.

    I do this all the time. My last girlfriend got mad when I pushed her off my lap at a friends house. She got all b*tchy and gave me attitude all night when we went to the bars. I didn't care. I had a good time with our friends and she got over it. Another time she got all upset when I wouldn't sit with her on the couch and instead I sat in a chair by myself. She kept giving me the "evil eye" and I thought it was super funny. I just kept laughing at her and telling her how funny she is when she's mad. I stayed in my chair and she got over it. She recently moved over seas for two years and I told her "I think you're awesome but I'm not staying celibate for that long. If I have a girlfriend when you get back I won't break up with her for you. That's not fair". She agreed and sexts me constantly to this day. Why? Because I'm a rock and she knows that I'll do whatever I want regardless of what she says. This is how you keep a girl.

    So in your situation you have to keep this attitude. Tell her the truth and be able to walk away if she doesn't accept it. Don't back down. The funny thing about this is if you do walk away there's a very good chance she'll come back, and she'll like you WAY more because of it.

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    Default Re: She says shes tired of feeling like a Booty Call....

    I wish I had read this a few minutes ago. But I saw something that me and her joke about and sent her a photo of it. I sent it to her for a couple reasons. It shows our common ground which makes her not feel like I just want sex, and it defuses possible tension of her wanting to give up the whole idea of seeing me intimately.

    But it sounds like I should have just waited longer. I wouldn't have messenged her but I saw this thing that felt like a good "common ground" reference.

    Not sure if I did good or if I should have waited for her to come to me. Also if she texts back I'm not sure what to do now...

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    Default Re: She says shes tired of feeling like a Booty Call....

    oh and it was a good opportunity for humor which I used well...

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    Default Re: She says shes tired of feeling like a Booty Call....

    You're over analyzing things. It doesn't matter that you contacted her. Contact her if you want. You've been seeing this girl for 6 months so you should contact her if you see things that you two share (like an inside joke). That wasn't the point of my post. The point is that you should act exactly like you did before she made an issue of your situation. You shouldn't change anything you're doing because she had a problem.

    Her problem is her problem. You stay the same. You always stay the same. You don't change anything because she doesn't like it. You get my drift?

    Act like nothing happened. If she brings it up again tell her the truth, and don't back down. I would definitely talk to her in person, that's not a conversation to be had over text.

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    Default Re: She says shes tired of feeling like a Booty Call....

    I see. So tomorrow I should ask her to hang out this week, which is what I normally do?
    Also I'm a little confused between acting like nothing happened and talking to her about it in person?
    Thank you though the advice is helpful

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    Default Re: She says shes tired of feeling like a Booty Call....

    Quote Originally Posted by gamer1138 View Post
    I see. So tomorrow I should ask her to hang out this week, which is what I normally do?
    Also I'm a little confused between acting like nothing happened and talking to her about it in person?
    Thank you though the advice is helpful
    Act like nothing happened by not getting suckered into it. Like directisbest said, his girl got mad when she got pushed off his lap. That's bratty and she gave him attitude the whole night. He didn't fall for it. He had a good time while she huffed and puffed. That's what it means to act like nothing happened.

    And you mentioned that she is being ridiculous so you are doing fine. If you have addressed the issue there isn't anymore for you to do except let her cool off. It happens, and it will happen again down the road so make sure to revisit this thread or bookmark it.

    Talk to her about her feelings in person, I think that goes over well rather than texting. or have a phone convo. I have had many miscommunications because I tried to handle heavy stuff through texting. But depends on the girl. You seem to be doing fine though. So I am not worried about you.

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    Default Re: She says shes tired of feeling like a Booty Call....

    Ok so you act like you always do and act like nothing happened. If it's something that really bugs her she will bring it up again THEN you talk to her about it.

    Example: If you talk to her about hanging out and she mentions what she already said you say "that's not something I feel comfortable talking about over the phone, when you come over we'll talk about it". Then you tell her what you think when you see her.

    See the thing is she might have just been moody at the time, and she might not bring it up again. She also might think it's a big issue and if she does, she'll let you know. That's why you act like nothing happened and stay the same.

    If she brings it up again tell her what you think. "I'm not in a situation where I want a relationship. I think you're awesome and I enjoy spending time with you but I'm not in the right place to make that kind of commitment right now. There is a possibility I could in the future. If that's something you can't except then things wont work out with us". Then you stick to your guns. If she cry's console her but stick to your guns. If she doesn't except it then you let her walk out and you don't contact her again. If you stick to your guns she'll come back most of the time.

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    Default Re: She says shes tired of feeling like a Booty Call....

    cool I will do those things! Thanks guys

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    Default Re: She says shes tired of feeling like a Booty Call....

    Yes, wait a bit longer. But not too long . Give her like day or 2.


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