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    Default She says shes tired of feeling like a Booty Call....

    I met a girl on tinder and we get along very well and have been seeing eachother once or twice a week to hang out or watch a movie. We've been seeing eachother about 6 months. It's not a serious relationship and we dont call eachother sweetie, or kiss goodbye or anything, but we have sex when we see eachother.
    I got a text from her saying "I'm tired of feeling like a booty call."

    I like her but dont want a serious relationship. Also, I hang out with her more than I hang out with ANYONE. I dont hang out with people that often because I am pretty busy.

    What should I do to keep the relationship running?

    also I feel she is very interested and attracted to me

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    Default Re: She says shes tired of feeling like a Booty Call....

    Well, as you said she is very interested. But you don't want anything serious, so maybe it is best to tell her what you feel. Tell her that you are not ready for a serious relationship, at least now. You have to be honest. If you have been with her till now, I guess you like her, so be honest with her and don't hurt her feelings by not telling the truth. Maybe she will accept the fact that everything will stay as it is. And who knows maybe after some time you will be closer to each other and you will want something more.

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    Default Re: She says shes tired of feeling like a Booty Call....

    What is she? A FB, MLR Or a long term?


    long term is out....so which one is it FB or MLR. You might eventually have to let her go if she seeks monogamy and you are not ready. Unless you explain your stance and see what she says.

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    Default Re: She says shes tired of feeling like a Booty Call....

    I'm with fancy16 on this. It doesn't seem to me that this girl wants to label your thing she doesn't want to feel like a slut. Tell her these exact words, she needs to hear them:

    " I'm sorry you feel that way, I really am. The truth is I wouldn't hang out with you that much if I didn't like you. I hang out with you more than I hang out with anyone. You know I'm a busy guy and I see you whenever I can. You are important to me, but I can't handle a serious relationship now. I don't have the time nor energy now, in the future I surely will and I want you to stick around. "
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: She says shes tired of feeling like a Booty Call....

    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post
    I'm with fancy16 on this. It doesn't seem to me that this girl wants to label your thing she doesn't want to feel like a slut. Tell her these exact words, she needs to hear them:

    " I'm sorry you feel that way, I really am. The truth is I wouldn't hang out with you that much if I didn't like you. I hang out with you more than I hang out with anyone. You know I'm a busy guy and I see you whenever I can. You are important to me, but I can't handle a serious relationship now. I don't have the time nor energy now, in the future I surely will and I want you to stick around. "

    Sweet, I will use this in my MLR.

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    Default Re: She says shes tired of feeling like a Booty Call....

    Quote Originally Posted by Mr. Assertive View Post
    Sweet, I will use this in my MLR.
    Anytime man ! I've been reading your stuff your legit brother.
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    Default Re: She says shes tired of feeling like a Booty Call....

    Thanks guys. I basically sent her something similar:

    "I'm sorry if I've made you feel that way. I think you are super awesome and I really like hanging out with you.
    I might come off the wrong way because I like being alone a lot.
    I actually hang out with you way more than anyone else....." Etc

    And then mentioned how i like her for a lot more than just sex; mentioned about all the things we have in common that I like talking to her about.

    Then I said this weekend id like to hang out (named a couple options) and that we don't have to have sex and added a smiley face.

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    Default Re: She says shes tired of feeling like a Booty Call....

    so she wrote back several hours later "talk is cheap".

    what do I do? Give her a day or two of space?
    she's normally not dramatic at all. In fact once before she said a similar thing about not wanting to be there just for sex and I just told her how we always chat during the week and do a bunch of other things, and then she said she was just being cranky and apologized.

    Maybe this time she just needs time? I dunno

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    Default Re: She says shes tired of feeling like a Booty Call....

    Ugh The post I just typed up got erased after I hit enter..

    Basically she is freaking out now because she saw on FB that I am hanging out with a friend tonight even after I said I like to be alone a lot. Which is all true. Basically I told her it's just a friend I haven't seen in forever and I made plans because She (girl I'm dating) said she was busy. And that I don't want to see her anymore if she thinks I am some terrible lying man whore person.

    I'll just let her calm down now and not give into her ridiculousness. She's normally never dramatic but apparently developed intense feelings.

    Sorry for all the updates I'll try not to bug you guys so much. Thanks again!!

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    Default Re: She says shes tired of feeling like a Booty Call....

    Dude, it's okay, you can bug us . I think you shouldn't have given her options to go out with you this week end strait away, you should have given her space.

    Your last move was spot on, yes let her calm down and talk to her later.
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