"The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
many women attracted to a guy who knows what he wants in life and is going after it.They absolutely adore being around that kind of qualities like presence and humor. huh!!! Just a random discussion from a an dating website datingdoo. that might help you dude!!!
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Being wealthy and being able to buy nice things like houses and cars does not necessarily make you Alpha. There is no doubt that having money and having a great life is an attractive thing - but not all people that are rich are happy.
A rich guy on the surface may be able to attract women but once she get's to know him she may notice things about his personality or his attitude that she does not like - in that instance, often no amount of money can make her attracted to him.
A rich guy who brags and shove's his wealth in other people's faces as a means to get people to like him and become attracted to him is low value/Beta - but a rich guy who is cool, fun, confident, interesting, non needy and funny (think Bradd Pitt/Tom Cruise) is likely to have the pick of any girl anywhere - but that's NOT because he is rich, sure it gives him an advantage but an average guy who has those kind of traits has as much chance as anyone at having his pick of any girl anywhere. Those are some traits of an alpha guy.
Here is a classic example - I was out with a female friend of mine once who had invited one of her friends to meet us for a few drinks, not joking this girl was hands down absolutely stunning - swimwear model stunning - looks wise she was the first girl I've ever thought 10 within seconds of meeting her.
Unsurprisingly she got hit on by every guy in the bar and eventually this good looking dude managed to snag her attention more than others and he ended up following her around like a puppy dog from bar to bar.
At one stage I heard him mention to her that he had 3 FERRARI'S! after 2 hours the hot girl turned to us and said "I have to get rid of this guy, he is becoming so creepy and annoying so I'm gonna go" - she bailed when he went to the bathroom - this guy nearly cried when he came back.
He had money, he had looks - he got her attention for a few hours - but he became an absolute needy, chumpy AFC and any initial attraction she had for him was ruined once she got to know him.
3 Ferrari's + AFC attitude + the cost of her drinks all night = no girl - not even a number or a good bye
So my answer is NO - money and wealth does NOT make you an alpha male - he was probably alpha in his job and other aspects of his life, he's successful so fair play - but an absolute AFC to a hot girl - it was embarrassing watching him with her - she had ALL the power even though he had all the wealth but that didn't matter.
If he had maintained his value/power then she may have chased HIM all night like a puppy dog but nope! he probably ended up masturbating on his Ferrari's - I felt sorry for him!
Wow, thank you for your post. That is really great to hear. Thank you very much
Where is the best place to learn about how to be a pua and have value? Thanks
I really think people can learn from this guy
He is homeless but creates high value and is inspiring.
So the idea created by mainstream media that you need a job, a house, money, let alone a big lambo in front of your doorstep is NOT true.
"The act of taking the first step is what set apart the winners from the losers"
- Bryan Tracy
"Natural routines are the PUA's paint brushes"
Is value sexually attractive? Thanks very much
Having value is natures way of ensuring that the right women mate with the right men in order to express the best possible genetic information to give the species the best possible chance of surviving.
So where a man looks at a woman and is attracted to breasts and hips, this translates into being able to provide milk for a baby, and hips to pass through the birth canal safely. A higher chance of survivability. This is why men are more visual.
For women a man that is going to stick around long enough, to provide security for their child, food, shelter etc. So healthy matters, emotional involvement, etc etc etc. You get the idea.
These are genetic. Social programing however leads women to believe they need a man with money, because men with money can provide food, shelter, security etc. As well, a man who works out is perceived as being healthy and will live long enough to provide that support. etc etc etc.
The key to long term attraction is to circumvent her social programing, and access her genetic programing instead. Regardless of how much money you make, or how you look, you can still increase your value in the right ways, and in doing so either get her into bed, or establish an long term relationship. Whatever your intended reasons for engaging in a target might be.
That is really great, thank you very much. I am thinking this might be useful for building status with other guys. I read in a book called Without Embarasment that status with men can have something to do with confidence and something like that. This above was explained incredibly well by you. Thank you very very much.