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    Default Re: does having a higher value mean having a higher status?

    Quote Originally Posted by Dillinger View Post
    Hi there everyone . Sorry for my last question. My question now is is value the main thing that attracts a woman to a man? Thank you
    Of course it is. Value is what attracts anyone to anyone/anything.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: does having a higher value mean having a higher status?

    many women attracted to a guy who knows what he wants in life and is going after it.They absolutely adore being around that kind of qualities like presence and humor. huh!!! Just a random discussion from a an dating website datingdoo. that might help you dude!!!

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    Default Re: does having a higher value mean having a higher status?

    Thank you very much ))))))))))))))))) i had to fill up more than 30 characters. sorry for the smiley

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    Default Re: does having a higher value mean having a higher status?

    Being wealthy and being able to buy nice things like houses and cars does not necessarily make you Alpha. There is no doubt that having money and having a great life is an attractive thing - but not all people that are rich are happy.

    A rich guy on the surface may be able to attract women but once she get's to know him she may notice things about his personality or his attitude that she does not like - in that instance, often no amount of money can make her attracted to him.

    A rich guy who brags and shove's his wealth in other people's faces as a means to get people to like him and become attracted to him is low value/Beta - but a rich guy who is cool, fun, confident, interesting, non needy and funny (think Bradd Pitt/Tom Cruise) is likely to have the pick of any girl anywhere - but that's NOT because he is rich, sure it gives him an advantage but an average guy who has those kind of traits has as much chance as anyone at having his pick of any girl anywhere. Those are some traits of an alpha guy.

    Here is a classic example - I was out with a female friend of mine once who had invited one of her friends to meet us for a few drinks, not joking this girl was hands down absolutely stunning - swimwear model stunning - looks wise she was the first girl I've ever thought 10 within seconds of meeting her.

    Unsurprisingly she got hit on by every guy in the bar and eventually this good looking dude managed to snag her attention more than others and he ended up following her around like a puppy dog from bar to bar.

    At one stage I heard him mention to her that he had 3 FERRARI'S! after 2 hours the hot girl turned to us and said "I have to get rid of this guy, he is becoming so creepy and annoying so I'm gonna go" - she bailed when he went to the bathroom - this guy nearly cried when he came back.

    He had money, he had looks - he got her attention for a few hours - but he became an absolute needy, chumpy AFC and any initial attraction she had for him was ruined once she got to know him.

    3 Ferrari's + AFC attitude + the cost of her drinks all night = no girl - not even a number or a good bye

    So my answer is NO - money and wealth does NOT make you an alpha male - he was probably alpha in his job and other aspects of his life, he's successful so fair play - but an absolute AFC to a hot girl - it was embarrassing watching him with her - she had ALL the power even though he had all the wealth but that didn't matter.

    If he had maintained his value/power then she may have chased HIM all night like a puppy dog but nope! he probably ended up masturbating on his Ferrari's - I felt sorry for him!

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    Default Re: does having a higher value mean having a higher status?

    Wow, thank you for your post. That is really great to hear. Thank you very much

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    Default Re: does having a higher value mean having a higher status?

    Where is the best place to learn about how to be a pua and have value? Thanks

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    Default Re: does having a higher value mean having a higher status?

    I really think people can learn from this guy
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bmav517MQJc

    He is homeless but creates high value and is inspiring.
    So the idea created by mainstream media that you need a job, a house, money, let alone a big lambo in front of your doorstep is NOT true.
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    Default Re: does having a higher value mean having a higher status?

    Is value sexually attractive? Thanks very much

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    Default Re: does having a higher value mean having a higher status?

    Having value is natures way of ensuring that the right women mate with the right men in order to express the best possible genetic information to give the species the best possible chance of surviving.

    So where a man looks at a woman and is attracted to breasts and hips, this translates into being able to provide milk for a baby, and hips to pass through the birth canal safely. A higher chance of survivability. This is why men are more visual.

    For women a man that is going to stick around long enough, to provide security for their child, food, shelter etc. So healthy matters, emotional involvement, etc etc etc. You get the idea.

    These are genetic. Social programing however leads women to believe they need a man with money, because men with money can provide food, shelter, security etc. As well, a man who works out is perceived as being healthy and will live long enough to provide that support. etc etc etc.

    The key to long term attraction is to circumvent her social programing, and access her genetic programing instead. Regardless of how much money you make, or how you look, you can still increase your value in the right ways, and in doing so either get her into bed, or establish an long term relationship. Whatever your intended reasons for engaging in a target might be.

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    Default Re: does having a higher value mean having a higher status?

    Quote Originally Posted by Bballking View Post
    Simply look around you at people you would like to be. A very simple example is an actor. Most people watch TV and are somewhat envious of the life of said actor. Now imagine if that actor showed up on your doorstep one day and said "hey Dillinger! I was in town and was wondering if you could take me down town?" You say sure (why wouldn't you). Actor pays for everything. They buy you food, people walk up for autographs, they meet you because your standing right next to them, you get in all the clubs later, brought back to the VIP, bottle service, girls, drugs, sex, rock and roll, blah blah blah, so on and so forth.

    The idea is that this person brings a value to your life that you didn't think was possible. Most of the time the term DHV is lost in translation, it's not what High Value that you hold that makes you seem so awesome, it's what High Value you hold that is going to benefit that other person in some way.

    Now, let's dial back down a few notches. Let's say you can cook, brilliant! A girl just found out that she won't have to be making all the meals, DHV. Let's say you can repair cars, perfect! A girl just found out if she needed help you could fix something on her vehicle, DHV. Let's say you have a large group of friends, miraculous! A girl just found out she will have people to hang out with on a Friday night, DHV... A few more... Let's say you go out of your way to give your mom the best bday present ever, fantastic! A girl just found out you are caring, DHV. Finally, let's say your rich and you drive an amazing car, wonderful! A girl just found out that she probably won't have to buy anything, and she'll be riding in style, DHV.

    The last one is probably preferred by most because it is the easiest DHV of them all, but it's not the only one. There are endless ways to Demonstrate Higher Value, and by doing so you only show the girl what value you add to her life.


    That is really great, thank you very much. I am thinking this might be useful for building status with other guys. I read in a book called Without Embarasment that status with men can have something to do with confidence and something like that. This above was explained incredibly well by you. Thank you very very much.


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