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    Default does having a higher value mean having a higher status?

    Hi there. When people talk about having a higher value than a woman to attract her does this mean having a higher status? And if so what makes up status? Thank you.

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    Default Re: does having a higher value mean having a higher status?

    Simply look around you at people you would like to be. A very simple example is an actor. Most people watch TV and are somewhat envious of the life of said actor. Now imagine if that actor showed up on your doorstep one day and said "hey Dillinger! I was in town and was wondering if you could take me down town?" You say sure (why wouldn't you). Actor pays for everything. They buy you food, people walk up for autographs, they meet you because your standing right next to them, you get in all the clubs later, brought back to the VIP, bottle service, girls, drugs, sex, rock and roll, blah blah blah, so on and so forth.

    The idea is that this person brings a value to your life that you didn't think was possible. Most of the time the term DHV is lost in translation, it's not what High Value that you hold that makes you seem so awesome, it's what High Value you hold that is going to benefit that other person in some way.

    Now, let's dial back down a few notches. Let's say you can cook, brilliant! A girl just found out that she won't have to be making all the meals, DHV. Let's say you can repair cars, perfect! A girl just found out if she needed help you could fix something on her vehicle, DHV. Let's say you have a large group of friends, miraculous! A girl just found out she will have people to hang out with on a Friday night, DHV... A few more... Let's say you go out of your way to give your mom the best bday present ever, fantastic! A girl just found out you are caring, DHV. Finally, let's say your rich and you drive an amazing car, wonderful! A girl just found out that she probably won't have to buy anything, and she'll be riding in style, DHV.

    The last one is probably preferred by most because it is the easiest DHV of them all, but it's not the only one. There are endless ways to Demonstrate Higher Value, and by doing so you only show the girl what value you add to her life.
    You don't need her

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    Default Re: does having a higher value mean having a higher status?

    Thank you very much. So does having these dhvs and showing them make a man more attractive? Thank you

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    Default Re: does having a higher value mean having a higher status?

    It makes everyone more attractive. Let's look at another example, your at the gym and you want to get jacked. Two guys approach you (oddly enough) both are 6 feet tall, however one is skinny, pasty white skin, glasses with the cord around the back; the other, tan, ripped, clean cut. They say "yo man, looks like you needed some help lifting, one of us can help you." Who you gonna go with? Probably the dude that looks like he has his sh1t together. Odd scenario, I know, but this guy can bring value to your life. He can push you, make you lift more weight, and help you form a body you may have been working towards. I know this example may sound like having a good physical appearance is what gives you Higher Value, and it a lot of ways it does. But the point is that you are going to choose someone who benefits you. This is the same for females. They want a man who can somehow bring value to their life. How can you show them that? (no need to answer)
    You don't need her

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    Default Re: does having a higher value mean having a higher status?

    You are incredible. Thank you very much.

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    Default Re: does having a higher value mean having a higher status?

    I am wondering, when mystery talks about survival value or social value is this what he is talking about? Thank you

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    Default Re: does having a higher value mean having a higher status?

    Survival value is your ability to support not only the girl, but yourself, and your family as well. 4000 years ago your survival value would have been based on your ability to hunt, fish, make fire, build, find a water source, and protect your family. Nowadays the concept is the same, but the details are different. Can you feed yourself, can you feed your family, can you shelter them, can you cloth them, can you heat your house, can you support them emotionally...? These are all factors that add to a survival value. In today's society, money is going to be your baseline for survival value, but it doesn't mean you aren't going to stay alive if your not rich.

    Social value plays a lot on the mentioned above posts. How can others benefit from you... Again, a generalization comes into play with social value... if you're interesting, funny, alpha, confident, people will be drawn towards you because you have great attributes. In all practicality it's partially true, but they are mostly drawn towards you because you bring something of value to their life. Your humor enlightens them. Your decisiveness eliminates their stress of making decisions. Your confidence loosens their own insecurities. Even your hobbies may bring something of interest and value to them. It boils down to a simple concept, how can you benefit others.
    You don't need her

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    Default Re: does having a higher value mean having a higher status?

    Thanks again very much. That helps a lot.

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    Default Re: does having a higher value mean having a higher status?

    Thank you again for your help. I am wondering about the term alpha male. Is there an alpha male in every room? Does having money and buying things that are high quality like a nice car make a person an alpha male? Thank you

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    Default Re: does having a higher value mean having a higher status?

    Hi there everyone . Sorry for my last question. My question now is is value the main thing that attracts a woman to a man? Thank you


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