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Thread: Having an exciting life

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    Default Having an exciting life

    Hey all,

    So a big part of picking up is having interesting and exciting stories, but my problem is any time I want to do something even mildly fun all my friends are "to busy" aka being parking egg heads. I just need some tips on having an exciting life by yourself or how to find more exciting people. It just sucks starting a story with, "So I was alone in the woods...."

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    Default Re: Having an exciting life

    Figure out some of your greatest interests, and then chase those. Unfortunately, you'll probably have to go after them alone for a little while. One of the great things about technology is that as much as it may be easier for people to stay apart, it's easier for them to come together as well. Check out meetup.com. They have a ton of stuff there that would probably interest you. Look for groups or activities. Go to parks where bands are playing. Check out Toastmasters. Look for anything that may interest you where there will be people. Going to bar and meeting people is all fine and dandy, but most people go out to get farked or get farked up, chances are you aren't going to make a ton of new friends in a place like that (chances are, not impossible). Join a gym, go to a poll hall, start playing poker, pick up any of thousands of new hobbies.

    Starting out in anything is the hardest part. After all, that's why we are all here... were looking for advice on how to start out with any girl for the first time, or how to start out with a new girl for the umpteenth time. The beginning a.k.a. the pain period, is always the hardest, but it gets better, easier, and smoother with time and persistence. You must go out and get busy my friend!
    You don't need her

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    Default Re: Having an exciting life

    what's wrong with walking alone in the woods? I don't make my friends an excuse. If they are flaking I do what I want. For example, I went out by myself yesterday. It was st patties day and I had to work. My friends were exhausted by the time i got out of work, so I met up with them but they wanted to pass out soon after. I texted my targets and made plans with them. I had a pretty good time. I opened sets, made friends, saw people I haven't spoken too in a long time and overall it was a decent night until I got too drunk and blew myself out with two cougars.

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    Default Re: Having an exciting life

    So a big part of picking up is having interesting and exciting stories, but my problem is any time I want to do something even mildly fun all my friends are "to busy" aka being parking egg heads. I just need some tips on having an exciting life by yourself or how to find more exciting people. It just sucks starting a story with, "So I was alone in the woods...."
    having interesting stories isn't really about doing interesting things. its about embellishing everyday things.
    the more descriptive you are the better (as long as you don't drone on and on about unimportant details to the story) your words need to paint a picture.

    i'll give you some examples

    instead of:

    me: today I pooped.

    use:

    me: man, have you ever ate so much taco bell that it gave you explosive diarrhea? well this morning some buddies and I decided to try their new am crunch wraps, the thing is they're just soo good you can never eat just one. so of course I stuffed myself right before going to the gym. I was like right in the middle of doing sit-ups when I felt it coming. so I got up and I ran for the locker room as fast as I could, and because I was in such a panic I triped over a girl who was doing pushups on the floor. I barely made it to the toilet in time...

    now, witch one did you think was a more captivating story?

    note, that story is all bullshit I just came up with off the top of my head.

    my problem is any time I want to do something even mildly fun all my friends are "to busy" aka being parking egg heads.
    I really do feel your pain here, many of my friends don't go to bars/ are in relationships and don't want to. for a while (and still every now and then) I've used the excuse that I don't want to go out alone. but the thing is, if you want friends who go out to bars, the best place to meet them is at a bar. same goes for any other adventurous activity, if you want yoga friends meet them at a yoga class. if you want shooting friends, meet them at a gun range. if you want motorcycle friends, meet them at a motorcycle club. you want boring friends, meet them at church lol you get the picture.


    It just sucks starting a story with, "So I was alone in the woods...."
    btw, almost every good hunting story I've ever heard started out something like that lol

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    Default Re: Having an exciting life

    Great advice, I need to stop making excuses and just get out of the house. I'm just getting cabin fever. I'm going to the beach tomorrow

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    Default Re: Having an exciting life

    Quote Originally Posted by Bballking View Post
    Figure out some of your greatest interests, and then chase those. Unfortunately, you'll probably have to go after them alone for a little while. One of the great things about technology is that as much as it may be easier for people to stay apart, it's easier for them to come together as well. Check out meetup.com. They have a ton of stuff there that would probably interest you. Look for groups or activities. Go to parks where bands are playing. Check out Toastmasters. Look for anything that may interest you where there will be people. Going to bar and meeting people is all fine and dandy, but most people go out to get farked or get farked up, chances are you aren't going to make a ton of new friends in a place like that (chances are, not impossible). Join a gym, go to a poll hall, start playing poker, pick up any of thousands of new hobbies.

    Starting out in anything is the hardest part. After all, that's why we are all here... were looking for advice on how to start out with any girl for the first time, or how to start out with a new girl for the umpteenth time. The beginning a.k.a. the pain period, is always the hardest, but it gets better, easier, and smoother with time and persistence. You must go out and get busy my friend!
    I totally agree on that. We have only one life. Enjoy it to the maximum


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