Re: How should I behave? Girlfriend met with her male friend that's texting
I'm gonna disagree with my guys here.
There's no reason to be alarmed. Don't be too faithless in girls, bros. Despite having a complicated mindset, they are, after all, humans. Not all girls are programmed to cheat or leave you. And even if that happens the first assumption we'll make that it's our fault and we try to better ourselves before blaming her or somebody else. That's the healthy process.
Regarding your question, be honest. I know it's easy to say. But I can tell you some basic rules about how to interpret your frustration with minimal casualties on your end. There's no need to criticize her. That will only get her into defense. And there's absolutely no reason to be needy.
I assume you allow yourself to spend time with attractive females other than your girlfriend, I don't care if they are your or her ex's friends or not. So, she has a right to do the same. It's actually a good thing. Every time I spend time away from my girl with other people, I realize how good of a decision I made to date her and that increases both my and her value in my mind.
It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.
It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.