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    Default Social Circle Game vs. Going-out solo/ with wings

    Recently, I've noticed that I've been accumulating a larger and larger social circle and some girls would invite me to go out with their friends to bars, social events, etc. From talking to some of my "serious into game" PUA friends who go out solo every Friday and Saturday, they say you have to ultimately give up hanging out with your buddies to really get good at pick-up. My goal in approaching women and doing "pick-up" is to be able to attract the girl of my dreams and turn her into my long-term girlfriend. While I do understand this, I still don't want to abandon my social circle of friends especially when there are some girls that could potential turn into FWB, LTR, etc. What do you guys think about this important question? And how do most of you deal with this?

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    Default Re: Social Circle Game vs. Going-out solo/ with wings

    It depends on your attitude. The solo guys you're talking about are the gunners. They are out there night after night to sarge and fine-tune their game by trying out numerous chicks. They're quick to move on from a girl to another. They don't necessarily have fun every night if their happiness depend on their close counts.

    In a social circle, everything plays out more slowly. Atmosphere is more relaxed. A group of people went out together and they're looking to pass time, to have fun. Now that doesn't mean hookups can't happen. I personally like gaming in a social circle because I think it gets you under the radar.

    Consider sarging out alone or with a wing. You'll approach people who are complete strangers and the possibility is that they will figure out what you're trying to do. That realization raises b1tch shields pretty quickly, whether instinctively or not. But in a social circle, everyone knows each other, everyone is more open. I think that gives you a little bit of discretion and it's more likely that your failures will be considered as friendly behavior rather than crash & burns.
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    Default Re: Social Circle Game vs. Going-out solo/ with wings

    either one is fine. I do mostly social circles but that doesn't mean once in awhile I push myself by myself. It really puts things into perspectives. By yourself you can determine what your weaknesses are after your night out. I went out by myself on St. Patties day. Lets just say I did ok. I opened about a couple of sets of girls and almost took home a cougar but I got too drunk.

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    Default Re: Social Circle Game vs. Going-out solo/ with wings

    Wolf24, so you're saying doing a bit of both could work then? The serious PUA guys I know are really all about self-improvement and do mostly nightgame without a drop of alcohol. Personally for me, this is really hard especially when I've been chilling all day (low-energy) then suddenly have to build momentum at a nightclub/bar. Also, I've tried doing cold approach pickup while hanging out with my social circle and sometimes it can get weird especially when you're trying to take the girl home that night. I have also considered having a schedule where I go out with a wing or go solo on Saturday and hang out with my social circle on Friday.

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    Default Re: Social Circle Game vs. Going-out solo/ with wings

    Little bit of both could work. As I said, it depends on your approach to all this. If you wanna be that pick up master, you often gotta go out there, way out of your comfort zone. Other than that, staying in your social circle, being flirty here and there, keeping it low-key can also work for some nights. You just gotta figure out what you want out of all this PUA thing.
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    Default Re: Social Circle Game vs. Going-out solo/ with wings

    You should be practicing this shit in your every day life, anyway. Not just the night time. Nothing beats day time closes.


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