An older girl that is 5 year older than me (she is on her early 30's) put me on friendzone.
I've met her in a training course/project provided by the company where we work (we are employees in different departments/areas), but we are spending much time together over the last 2 months (99% of the time we are together we talk about the project). The project ends next week and I need a strategy to continue seeing her after this, because she will work for other company soon (20 miles away), but I want to be her friend in order to meet her girl friends (I saw some pics in her laptop and she has beautiful girl friends)
I've tried to get her being funny, trying some hair contact, inviting her to get a drink (rejected).. but she told me already several times in a smooth way that she likes older men (40+), I'm too young for her and so on.
I wanna continue seeing her again after this. I can't get her but I want to be her friend so she can introduce me to her younger sister, girl friends etc. So what should it be my strategy until the project finishes and she leaves the company (risk of not seeing her again)?
1 - Should I be a really nice guy (I'm friendzoned already mostly because of age issues and physical appearance..not enough muscles for her) so she could se me as a "bro" and introduce me to her friends.
2 - Start hitting on her (again). Try to make jokes about her hair, clothes whatever to be funny so she could think that I'm too young for her but I may be fine for her younger girl friends.
What do you think should be the right strategy? I have 1 week left, then she leaves and maybe don't see her again and her potential girl friends ever..