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Thread: Friendzoned: Now, what should I do to meet her girl friends?

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    Default Friendzoned: Now, what should I do to meet her girl friends?

    An older girl that is 5 year older than me (she is on her early 30's) put me on friendzone.

    I've met her in a training course/project provided by the company where we work (we are employees in different departments/areas), but we are spending much time together over the last 2 months (99% of the time we are together we talk about the project). The project ends next week and I need a strategy to continue seeing her after this, because she will work for other company soon (20 miles away), but I want to be her friend in order to meet her girl friends (I saw some pics in her laptop and she has beautiful girl friends)

    I've tried to get her being funny, trying some hair contact, inviting her to get a drink (rejected).. but she told me already several times in a smooth way that she likes older men (40+), I'm too young for her and so on.

    I wanna continue seeing her again after this. I can't get her but I want to be her friend so she can introduce me to her younger sister, girl friends etc. So what should it be my strategy until the project finishes and she leaves the company (risk of not seeing her again)?


    1 - Should I be a really nice guy (I'm friendzoned already mostly because of age issues and physical appearance..not enough muscles for her) so she could se me as a "bro" and introduce me to her friends.

    2 - Start hitting on her (again). Try to make jokes about her hair, clothes whatever to be funny so she could think that I'm too young for her but I may be fine for her younger girl friends.


    What do you think should be the right strategy? I have 1 week left, then she leaves and maybe don't see her again and her potential girl friends ever..

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    Default Re: Friendzoned: Now, what should I do to meet her girl friends?

    1 - Should I be a really nice guy (I'm friendzoned already mostly because of age issues and physical appearance..not enough muscles for her) so she could se me as a "bro" and introduce me to her friends.
    be a cool guy, stop worrying about the "friendzone", be flirty with every girl you come to know and don't give a shit what they think, be generous and be grateful for female friends.


    also 8 times out of 10, physical appearance doesn't really matter. that is, unless you're like a 400 pound, old midget who lives with his parents and has no friends. I know this, because I'm a great looking guy but I've had periods in my life when I went months without getting laid. I even got so pissed off because a lot of girls would just stare at me and look away and blush when I looked their way, I would sometimes approach them and struggle to hold a conversation and they would suddenly lose much of the attraction they had for me. on the other hand, I have an Asian friend who is like 5 foot tall and looks like a f*cking child but he managed to pull two different girls in the same night.

    fact is, if you're confident and cool, you will get laid. not necessarily by the girl who "friendzoned" you, but maybe by one of her friends, or maybe by a girl who sees you guys having lots of fun as friends, or maybe you can hand her off to one of your guy friends who is then encouraged to wing for you later on, or maybe you can just get some good laughs from her and maybe learn a thing or two that helps you out in other areas of your life. when you're cool and generous the possibility's are limitless.

    I have 1 week left, then she leaves and maybe don't see her again and her potential girl friends ever..
    you could always just get her number and be long distance friends and go to her for advice about things. there are many ways people can be beneficial to your life.

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    Default Re: Friendzoned: Now, what should I do to meet her girl friends?

    A little Buddhist influence on your game: let go of all attachment to worldly things - Don't get too stuck on this girl

    If you can build rapport with this girl then go ahead, make sure to DHV because she needs to have a high opinion of you before she will introduce you to her friends. Give her a reason to stay friends with you, and if it doesn't work out, so be it. There will be other chicks.

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    Default Re: Friendzoned: Now, what should I do to meet her girl friends?

    Get the number. Also, you should try to get to know her...girls can smell ulterior motives. Be fun, give value and she won't have a problem inviting you out to meet her girlfriends.

    There isn't such a thing as the friendzone...you just dropped the ball along the way or are conveying unattractive qualities. Age shouldn't be a huge factor, I have been seeing older women lately and that's my forte right now. But even if the friendzone existed, embrace it. Take it for what it is and make the most out of it.


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