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Thread: Crazy Confusing Chick!? TL,DR Version Inside!!

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    Default Crazy Confusing Chick!? TL,DR Version Inside!!

    Ok so I been hanging out with this HB8 chick who is notorious for being a handful (aka crazy). I'm getting good vibes from her still and my friends told me I was insane for pursuing her but nonetheless she is chill except when she drinks. When she drinks chaos ensues not long after. A few points included in a Timeline to make:

    -At first the couple of times she comes over we kissed on the couch (we've actually made out a few times drunk before in the past only recently starting hanging out). She tells me she's looking for a relationship and I better not waste her time. I play cool and tell her I'm not looking for one but may be open to the fact.

    -Next time hanging out we kiss and she gives me a BJ. But doesn't let me finish WTF! I jokingly ask if she could "finish me off" and she leaves angrily

    -I message her next day asking wtf happened, she replies I'm being rude af but nonetheless tells me I better not waste her "time" and that she thinks I get alot of puss. Surely not me?? Haha she hangs out again later the night, but leaves because of emotional distress due to arguing in her family.

    -Next we hang we drink with my roommates and when they go to bed I handle my business. We have sex. I tore it up but she claims she never had a orgasm since 15 and I couldn't cum because I was drunk. Surely some sexual issues but we still cuddle...

    -Next day we watch a movie, late in the night I try again for sex (sober) but she claims she is sore. Im sleepy she decides to go home and we kiss each other GN.

    -Time for DRAMAAA!! We hang with my roommates and they notice she's kinda has a attitude. Beers were included, she yells she hate me while I check my phone for 2 secs and that I never listen. Pretty much we argue all night, she gets to the point where she says we incompatible and I argee. That makes her more mad!! I kick her out politely, and she gets upset. I try calm her down but she angrily drives home. I posted a status about my frustration (not mentioning her) and she comments up there angrily. I ignore her blah blah.

    -2 days later after no contact and her texting my friend a long conversation that I was a bitch lol, (he showed me). She asks to hang again and talk. We dont talk just play video games. I tell her im tired and try to kiss her to make some moves for more sex. She says she not ready for a relationship and wants to be friends, I'm calm and cool like no prob and she leaves.

    She has been texting me 2 days straight, even at 2am once while I was sleep. I'm backing off and pursuing other girls and yet she still hits me up to hang.

    NOW

    TL,DR

    We hung a couple times had sex, had a arguement and drama.
    This girl doesnt know what she wants imo, she up and down with emotions.

    Points To Make

    -she openly admits in FB statuses she is bipolar and suffers from anxiety.

    -she stays up to like 5am regularly, I go to bed at 1.

    -She has no job and lives with her moms and has no friends hardly. I have a good job and nice place.

    -She is very impatient and emotional sometimes and irrationalizes everything I say that is logical in a arguement. She's impatient and antsy while I'm known for being a super laid back and chill guy lol.

    Simply put what the heck is going through a her mind and how should I act?

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    Default Re: Crazy Confusing Chick!? TL,DR Version Inside!!

    I get that crazy is a turn on , but do you really want to get involved with a girl who is bi-polar,, impatient, antsy,emotional, and has no job and no friends !?!?!? ........ Sounds like a big headache to me
    "The purpose of our lives is to be happy" - his Holiness the Dalai Llama of Tibet

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    Default Re: Crazy Confusing Chick!? TL,DR Version Inside!!

    I don't want to judge but I would not involve in such a relationship.

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    Default Re: Crazy Confusing Chick!? TL,DR Version Inside!!

    Honestly, I have standards. I wouldn't involve myself with someone who is this emotionally unstable. Imagine what life would be like dating this chick when she finally lets her guard down and shows you her "real" side! You think she's crazy now.... Just wait.

    Regardless, something's I noticed in your story is that she throws a bunch of shit tests at you, which is part of her personality. She wants to find a guy that can put up with her emotional instability, and the only way she can do that is by irrationally testing every guy she meets. Even stuff life "you better not waste my time" is a total shit test. I think she gets angry compulsively because you give her a reaction she wasn't expecting. When you don't put up with it and pass her shit test, she throws another ("I hate you"), and the cycle continues.

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    Default Re: Crazy Confusing Chick!? TL,DR Version Inside!!

    Don't stick your dick in crazy.

    You've already done that mistake, so I think it'll be to your best benefit to try and cut all contact with her. Block her number and move on.

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    Default Re: Crazy Confusing Chick!? TL,DR Version Inside!!

    Quote Originally Posted by ConnorMaxwell72 View Post
    Honestly, I have standards. I wouldn't involve myself with someone who is this emotionally unstable. Imagine what life would be like dating this chick when she finally lets her guard down and shows you her "real" side! You think she's crazy now.... Just wait.

    Regardless, something's I noticed in your story is that she throws a bunch of shit tests at you, which is part of her personality. She wants to find a guy that can put up with her emotional instability, and the only way she can do that is by irrationally testing every guy she meets. Even stuff life "you better not waste my time" is a total shit test. I think she gets angry compulsively because you give her a reaction she wasn't expecting. When you don't put up with it and pass her shit test, she throws another ("I hate you"), and the cycle continues.
    I feel this hit nail on the hammer. I actually realized I couldn't deal with her level of crazy. Get this, I decided to ease off on the hanging out. She even asked me to hangout a couple times. Last time we texted I told her I was about to gonto bed because I have a big day at work tomorrow. So tomorrow, (I work in retail) she comes into my job with another guy and makes eye contact with me and litterally hides into another aisle. They both leave without buying anything. I know she did that make me jealous. Jealous attempt failed.

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    Default Re: Crazy Confusing Chick!? TL,DR Version Inside!!

    Quote Originally Posted by drgnsfire12 View Post
    I get that crazy is a turn on , but do you really want to get involved with a girl who is bi-polar,, impatient, antsy,emotional, and has no job and no friends !?!?!? ........ Sounds like a big headache to me
    Yes she was quite a headache. I'm surprised I tolerated her that long. Ugh

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    Default Re: Crazy Confusing Chick!? TL,DR Version Inside!!

    Dude, Run far far away from her she will only screw you over in the long run. If she's hiding in aisles to look at you thats just weird. But hey she could be possibly trying to get better at stalking ?
    "A man who stands for nothing, will fall for anything" - Malcom X


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