Re: Help with approaching much younger HB10
Well first off you have to flirt and get her laughing. Defenses go down a bit when someone is laughing. Genuinely and not the courteous kind. You know the difference.
Once she's laughing you are vibing. From here you can start to ask her some personal questions, but don't turn it into an interview. Try to turn questions into statements to avoid this. Ex: Instead of "Where did you grow up?" say "I bet you're originally from New York" or something.
Once you're talking personally have a very light commitment ready to go. Tell her to meet you for coffee tomorrow, but you only have an hour cause you have to be somewhere. That way she doesn't have to worry about not having a good time and no way to leave. Then once you're having coffee tell her your plans "fell through" if you two are having a good time. Then you can enjoy the rest of your first date.
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