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    IamGunner is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I have horrible transitions from Opening to Attraction

    I have no problems OPENING or ATTRACTING. I have a big problem trying to transition from OPENING to ATTRACTION. For example:

    DAY GAME

    Me: I saw you from afar and I just wanted to say you look AWESOME.
    Hb: Oh thanks, blah blah blah
    Me: I'm Gunner
    Hb: I'm Stacy
    Me: Get this, on my way here I saw a little girl and a little boy holding hands. Looks innocent right? As I was driving by the little boy gives me the FINGER!

    You see how the transition is really sloppy?
    Now here is a better set, but sometimes I feel like it's a little TOO FAST for day game. I NEG the target right AFTER the OPENER.

    Me: I saw you from afar and I just wanted to say you look AWESOME.
    Hb: Oh thanks, blah blah blah
    Me: I'm Gunner
    Hb: I'm Stacy
    Me: Wait, DON'T MOVE! "touches her hair as if there was a bug or something on it"
    Hb: Omg was there a bug?
    Me: Idk it was like a wierd smudge, anyways... (proceed with kino games, test games, DHV's etc)

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    Default Re: I have horrible transitions from Opening to Attraction

    From what I can tell, your attraction part seems unnatural and forced. Instead of trying to jump into the attraction part, try to build of her " blah blahblah" part, usually there's a way to extend a conversation instead of completely disregarding her sentence and introducing yourself. DHV off that, can I have an example of what something she'd say after you complement her dress?

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    Default Re: I have horrible transitions from Opening to Attraction

    They usually say something along the lines of:

    Me: I saw you from afar and I just wanted to say you look AWESOME.
    Hb: Oh thanks, that's so nice of you.

    So as you can see, it's hard for me to build off what they say

    My smoothest transition was something like this (ON COLLEGE CAMPUS DAY GAME):

    Me: I saw you from afar and I just wanted to say you look AWESOME.
    Hb: Oh thanks, that's so nice of you.
    Me: I'm Gunner
    Hb; I'm Stacy
    Me: What are you studying?
    Hb: I'm studying astronomy, you?
    Me; I'm studying psychology, I love human interactions. Here's a game I learned in class. *Jump straight into kino/compliance testing*
    Last edited by IamGunner; 04-02-2015 at 12:02 AM. Reason: Additional info

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    Default Re: I have horrible transitions from Opening to Attraction

    I got feedback from someone in chatrooms and he gave me great feedback. He said that, I can use "screening" as a smoother transition. Funny thing is, I did that in my THIRD set without even noticing it.
    For example:

    Me: Hey I just wanted to come say that those earring look good on you (opener)
    hb: Oh thanks... (blah blah Blah)
    Me: I'm Gunner
    hb: I'm Jackie
    Me: Are you Irish by any chance? (screening)
    hb: blah blah
    Me: *neg, dhv, game, gambit, etc etc*

    Hope this helps! If anyone has a smoother transition let me know, appreciate it!

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    Default Re: I have horrible transitions from Opening to Attraction

    No dude, screening is just making assumptions and statements in stead of asking questions, that is your safest bet. I don't have no problem with you negging. However, I do with you going into kino escalating and these unconscious rapport building gambits. A handshake is ok and a little assumption on her astrological sign and what it means is cool but more right off the bat, that just seems weird. It's cool you have no approach anxiety. I hope your body language exudes alpha maleness. Keep at it ! Practice makes perfect !
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: I have horrible transitions from Opening to Attraction

    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post
    No dude, screening is just making assumptions and statements in stead of asking questions, that is your safest bet. I don't have no problem with you negging. However, I do with you going into kino escalating and these unconscious rapport building gambits. A handshake is ok and a little assumption on her astrological sign and what it means is cool but more right off the bat, that just seems weird. It's cool you have no approach anxiety. I hope your body language exudes alpha maleness. Keep at it ! Practice makes perfect !
    Can you give me a specific example of a screening? Like something you have done infield? Or can you give me dialogue between you and HB? It would help me a lot!

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    Default Re: I have horrible transitions from Opening to Attraction

    Dude I don't remember full dialogues. That was a weird thing to ask man. Usually it goes something like this.

    xavier: Hey I saw you from afar and I would have killed myself if I didn't come over and say hi, I'm xavier
    her: Hi, I'm HB
    xavier: So can you tell me three interesting things about you?
    her: three things
    xavier: I start commenting on these things maybe tell her something like you're a visual person because you look up when you think (or whatever type of person she is)
    her: yeah i guess that's true
    If I run out of things to say the screening comes in play
    You look a bit Russian has anyone ever told you that?
    You have a tattoo I can just tell you have one then I go into this shit about tattoos and their places on the body
    I ask if she regrets it when she got it

    Dude just improvise if you still have problems PM me.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: I have horrible transitions from Opening to Attraction

    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post
    Dude I don't remember full dialogues. That was a weird thing to ask man. Usually it goes something like this.

    xavier: Hey I saw you from afar and I would have killed myself if I didn't come over and say hi, I'm xavier
    her: Hi, I'm HB
    xavier: So can you tell me three interesting things about you?
    her: three things
    xavier: I start commenting on these things maybe tell her something like you're a visual person because you look up when you think (or whatever type of person she is)
    her: yeah i guess that's true
    If I run out of things to say the screening comes in play
    You look a bit Russian has anyone ever told you that?
    You have a tattoo I can just tell you have one then I go into this shit about tattoos and their places on the body
    I ask if she regrets it when she got it

    Dude just improvise if you still have problems PM me.
    Oh no that clears it up THANKS!


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