Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 10 of 10
Like Tree4Likes
  • 1 Post By ImPat
  • 1 Post By drgnsfire12
  • 1 Post By Thrill
  • 1 Post By xavier

Thread: sauerkraut on a date...wtf?

  1. #1
    luciddreamer is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 104, Level: 2
    Level completed: 8%, Points required for next Level: 46
    Overall activity: 6.0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Nov 2013
    Posts
    15
    Points
    104
    Level
    2
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    8

    Default sauerkraut on a date...wtf?

    why would a woman order sauerkraut and garlic bread on a date? what the hell? she ordered it on the second date before I even got to the restaurant, and it was her idea to have the date in the first place. We had a little difficulty communicating logistics via text before the date, but I wouldn't think it would be anything to the point of her saying 'this guy pissed me off, so I'm going to the date just to be nice and I'm going to communicate that I don't want to kiss him'.

    she *did* offer to share it with me, but still. I interpret ordering sauerkraut on a date as something you don't do unless you have zero intentions of kissing the other person.

    Thoughts?

  2. #2
    luciddreamer is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 104, Level: 2
    Level completed: 8%, Points required for next Level: 46
    Overall activity: 6.0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Nov 2013
    Posts
    15
    Points
    104
    Level
    2
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    8

    Default Re: sauerkraut on a date...wtf?

    and she was also talking on her cellphone when I first got there. she didn't stop when I got there, she kept talking for a couple minutes. wtf.

  3. #3
    xavier's Avatar
    xavier is offline PUA All Star
    Points: 15,104, Level: 79
    Level completed: 51%, Points required for next Level: 246
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social31 days registered10000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Feb 2011
    Location
    Paris, France
    Posts
    1,120
    Points
    15,104
    Level
    79
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 15 Times in 15 Posts
    Rep Power
    667

    Default Re: sauerkraut on a date...wtf?

    The ordering sauerkraut is not that big a deal. The talking on the cell phone is unless it's something important. I get the feeling your German so why didn't you just flat out say that you don't want her to act that way? I would have just negged her about it. She doesn't seem that respectful of you. Are you sure she knows you are of high value? Does she know you won't put up with her shit?
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

  4. #4
    ImPat is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 68, Level: 1
    Level completed: 36%, Points required for next Level: 32
    Overall activity: 99.0%
    Join Date
    Apr 2015
    Posts
    15
    Points
    68
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    3
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post
    Rep Power
    6

    Default Re: sauerkraut on a date...wtf?

    Be bold, tell her you won't put up with her shit. Always bring gum just in case, even if you're eating something that doesn't smell bad. Gum is always your friend

  5. #5
    ConnorMaxwell72 is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 585, Level: 11
    Level completed: 70%, Points required for next Level: 15
    Overall activity: 99.0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered500 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Dec 2012
    Location
    New York, NY
    Posts
    74
    Points
    585
    Level
    11
    Thanks
    3
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post
    Rep Power
    30

    Default Re: sauerkraut on a date...wtf?

    Maybe she just likes sauerkraut...

  6. #6
    drgnsfire12 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 3,671, Level: 38
    Level completed: 14%, Points required for next Level: 129
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    1000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Oct 2013
    Location
    New York, New York
    Posts
    588
    Points
    3,671
    Level
    38
    Thanks
    5
    Thanked 37 Times in 36 Posts
    Rep Power
    181

    Default Re: sauerkraut on a date...wtf?

    Sauerkraut and garlic bread is bad but I would never put up with the talking on the cell phone .....I would have negged the shit out of her
    "The purpose of our lives is to be happy" - his Holiness the Dalai Llama of Tibet

  7. #7
    Bimmer's Avatar
    Bimmer is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 1,198, Level: 18
    Level completed: 98%, Points required for next Level: 2
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    1000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Aug 2012
    Location
    Pittsburgh, PA
    Posts
    240
    Points
    1,198
    Level
    18
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post
    Rep Power
    64

    Default Re: sauerkraut on a date...wtf?

    Gum is your new best friend. Not the fruity shit either. I have packs in my car, at the office, in my house, in my brief case. It's always around me & while I chew TONS of gum, it's actually for other people so I don't have to put up with their bad breath
    I wish I was little bit taller
    I wish I was a baller
    I wish I had a girl who looked good
    I would call her - Skee Lo, the OG AFC

  8. #8
    Thrill is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 118, Level: 2
    Level completed: 36%, Points required for next Level: 32
    Overall activity: 8.0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Feb 2015
    Posts
    35
    Points
    118
    Level
    2
    Thanks
    2
    Thanked 4 Times in 4 Posts
    Rep Power
    8

    Default Re: sauerkraut on a date...wtf?

    I agree. Don't read too much into what she orders and neg her. Me personally, I don't see what the big deal is about garlic breath. I love garlic. Maybe she is as forward-thinking as I am ;-P . The phone-talking thing is not good, though, but... were you late? If you were late, or she was early, maybe she was just doing something till you got there. Also, it's a second date, so maybe you haven't proven yourself enough yet for her to drop everything for you. Bottom line: don't read too much into what she orders; she shouldn't be talking on the phone while you're on a date together unless there's an extenuating circumstance (you're late, it's important, etc.); neg neg neg.

    -- Thrill

  9. #9
    DirectIsBest's Avatar
    DirectIsBest is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 4,840, Level: 44
    Level completed: 45%, Points required for next Level: 110
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social1000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Apr 2013
    Location
    The frozen tundra. U.S.A.
    Posts
    595
    Points
    4,840
    Level
    44
    Thanks
    4
    Thanked 24 Times in 22 Posts
    Rep Power
    228

    Default Re: sauerkraut on a date...wtf?

    I agree with the above posters but I want to add something.

    A neg doesn't need to be vocal. It can be with your facial expressions as well. When a girl talks on her phone during a date and it's not important I don't vocalize my neg. I give them the "look". Basically the "look" is a look a parent would give to their child when their child disappoints them. They always end the call right away and apologize.

    Negging is useful in certain circumstances, but I've found that negging with your body is much more effective then with your voice.

  10. #10
    xavier's Avatar
    xavier is offline PUA All Star
    Points: 15,104, Level: 79
    Level completed: 51%, Points required for next Level: 246
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social31 days registered10000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Feb 2011
    Location
    Paris, France
    Posts
    1,120
    Points
    15,104
    Level
    79
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 15 Times in 15 Posts
    Rep Power
    667

    Default Re: sauerkraut on a date...wtf?

    That's true because it targets their unconscious brain more. You make her feel that you disapprove of her actions and it's all about making them feel shit.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.


Similar Threads

  1. My date want to bring her friend on 1st date- Advice Needed!
    By fredyyy in forum General Questions
    Replies: 5
    Last Thread: 06-01-2014, 11:07 AM
  2. date tommorow, concerned with flaking and actual date
    By Aaron go bragh in forum General Questions
    Replies: 4
    Last Thread: 11-23-2013, 04:27 PM
  3. Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 11-20-2012, 04:49 AM
  4. Replies: 8
    Last Thread: 11-08-2012, 12:43 PM
  5. Date 1 Success! But have I stuffed any chance of a second date?
    By thedatenator in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 6
    Last Thread: 03-28-2012, 07:09 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com