Re: How to start improving myself ?
That's a good book, but as you said it's not for flirty stuff.
Search this forum, check out the sticky threads. They'll give you a start.
Check out the self improvement section as well. We've reviewed a lot of books in the past and most of them are in there somewhere. You can find most of those books as PDFs if you simply Google them.
After you think you've absorbed enough information, TRY them. Go out in the field.
Welcome to our ranks, let's have some fun together.
It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.
It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.