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Thread: Is She Mad At Me? Or Over Me?

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    Default Is She Mad At Me? Or Over Me?

    Theres this girl I have on my mind like crazy. We were close to having sex one night, talked about our feelings for each other and had a dramatic crazy falling out that kinda went public and the whole town knows about. Pretty much I got into a fight at a bar and she tried to break it up and got hurt as a result I got blamed for it. We finally talked again after 4 months, in those 4 months she admitted she hated me. During that talk I told her I wanted to put in effort to make it more serious. And I called her a couple times and brought up the idea of having dinner to which she said she'll have to find time in her work and school schedule.

    Now here's where I think I messed up. One of my on and off again flings decided to go with me to a show downtown across the street from the bar we both happened to be at. Her best friend say us leave. I never thought much of it, but now everytime I see her out she seems cold and distant and just seems like she doesnt even want to talk to me or do our usual kiss. Every time I say we should hang she says she's too busy now. Tried to kiss her last night and she told me to leave her alone and called me asshole. Simply put she's treating me like a ex, and she makes me do AFC things lol.

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    1. We're both single and I think we cant get mad if the other hook up with other people because we arent official yet. How can I deal with possible jealousy on her end if we're not official.

    2. I have been bedding and gaming numerous other women. And one crazy chick even made it known on my Facebook so I'm sure that blew my cover. Me and that chick are no longer talking.

    3. Is she mad at me or just over me? What do you guys think, and should I just move on? I feel like shes the one but if it isnt meant to be I guess I have to accept it.

    Please and thank you.

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    Default Re: Is She Mad At Me? Or Over Me?

    Didn't you just post about trying to get with a crazy chick??? I'm noticing a pattern here....

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    Default Re: Is She Mad At Me? Or Over Me?

    Quote Originally Posted by ConnorMaxwell72 View Post
    Didn't you just post about trying to get with a crazy chick??? I'm noticing a pattern here....
    This isn't the crazy chick, totally different girl. The crazy chick was one of kther women I was just gaming. I am aware of no pattern or maybe it's just me lol.

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    Default Re: Is She Mad At Me? Or Over Me?

    Bro, just move on and try to get over her

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    Default Re: Is She Mad At Me? Or Over Me?

    Ok. It's not a bad thing for women to know that you're hanging out with other women. It's actually a good thing. You aren't with this girl so you should never "worry" that she knows you're hanging out with other women. It's none of her business and you have every right to do so.

    It's not a bad thing for a girl to "hate" you. In fact it's WAY better then her putting you in the friend zone. When I was younger I hooked up with allot of women then completely blew them off. They hated me but I didn't care. They eventually got over it and I messed around with some of them again years down the road. It's not the best thing for a girl to hate you, but it's not the worst either.

    Now there's the real situation your in. It sounds like you had multiple opportunities but you keep going AFC and blowing them. I'm not a big fan of "talking" about getting serious with a girl UNTIL I've been sleeping with her on a regular basis. It just never worked well for me. You would have been way better off keeping things light because you haven't even slept with this girl.

    The real question is this; Why would you want to be with her?! You haven't even slept with her yet and there's all kinds of issues and drama surrounding you two. Just think what it would be like if you two DID get together. Trust me on this one, it wouldn't get better. If you have "issues" like you two already have the relationship will never work. It's already doomed and it hasn't even started. The biggest red flag you can have with a girl is if you're already fighting BEFORE you get into a relationship with her. Do yourself a favor and stop investing yourself in this girl.

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    Default Re: Is She Mad At Me? Or Over Me?

    Direct is 100% on the money with this , but as a side, why the hell are you getting into a bar fight ???? That's almost as bad as getting drunk on a date and turning into a Douchebag !!!
    "The purpose of our lives is to be happy" - his Holiness the Dalai Llama of Tibet

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    Default Re: Is She Mad At Me? Or Over Me?

    Quote Originally Posted by DirectIsBest View Post
    Ok. It's not a bad thing for women to know that you're hanging out with other women. It's actually a good thing. You aren't with this girl so you should never "worry" that she knows you're hanging out with other women. It's none of her business and you have every right to do so.

    It's not a bad thing for a girl to "hate" you. In fact it's WAY better then her putting you in the friend zone. When I was younger I hooked up with allot of women then completely blew them off. They hated me but I didn't care. They eventually got over it and I messed around with some of them again years down the road. It's not the best thing for a girl to hate you, but it's not the worst either.

    Now there's the real situation your in. It sounds like you had multiple opportunities but you keep going AFC and blowing them. I'm not a big fan of "talking" about getting serious with a girl UNTIL I've been sleeping with her on a regular basis. It just never worked well for me. You would have been way better off keeping things light because you haven't even slept with this girl.

    The real question is this; Why would you want to be with her?! You haven't even slept with her yet and there's all kinds of issues and drama surrounding you two. Just think what it would be like if you two DID get together. Trust me on this one, it wouldn't get better. If you have "issues" like you two already have the relationship will never work. It's already doomed and it hasn't even started. The biggest red flag you can have with a girl is if you're already fighting BEFORE you get into a relationship with her. Do yourself a favor and stop investing yourself in this girl.
    Hmm, I think you are right. She is one of the catty, girls that seems to always be talking negative about another chick and just gets crazy mood swings. Ugh I need to stop going for the crazy chicks lol.

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    Default Re: Is She Mad At Me? Or Over Me?

    MEH. The answer to that is not really important. Let's just say I was a bit of a roughneck that was good with women but now I matured alot and now I'm trying to be a gentlemen that is good with women

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    Default Re: Is She Mad At Me? Or Over Me?

    Whatever you do, don’t get defensive, make excuses for yourself.sometimes, a person wants you to do something for them because they feel you should do it, not because they want you to. Follow some new techniques from books like the tao of badass review,magicbullets etc.,.

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    Default Re: Is She Mad At Me? Or Over Me?

    Theres this girl I have on my mind like crazy. We were close to having sex one night, talked about our feelings for each other and had a dramatic crazy falling out that kinda went public and the whole town knows about. Pretty much I got into a fight at a bar and she tried to break it up and got hurt as a result
    here's where you messed up, you got into a f*cking fight. was it really worth the damage it caused? as a martial artist, I can tell you from experience, the best fight is the one that never happened.

    of course, you can't change that now.

    Every time I say we should hang she says she's too busy now.
    sounds like she's over you. you should move on too.

    Is she mad at me or just over me?
    my bet is that she is both mad at you and over you. lol

    sounds like you're a guy with plenty of options, you should be fine with your side b!tches.


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