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Thread: She wants to go for a drink with her friend?

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    Default She wants to go for a drink with her friend?

    So, i met this old girl (Person A) at this coffee place. She works there. Anywhere we met a while back through this girl i was seeing back then (Julia) (Person B). We were only seeing each other for about 3 weeks, we didnt have sex. It wasnt close to being serious. However, they're both still good friends. They still hang out. Anyways. I havent seen either of them for about 2 years back.

    So saw Person A at the coffee place. We talked for a bit. And i picked up on a couple IOIs or whatever, that she was interested, and so was i. I suggested we go meet up for a coffee sometime. She said "..Yeah maybe with julia (person b) we could all meet up". And i said yeah, sure whichever you prefer, just you and me or with julia. Whichever. She said "yeah sure!". So i suggested "you could give me your number and i could text you." She then answered "do you have facebook ? So yeah anyways, you get the drift. I havent added her yet on facebook. But yeah. I could tell she was interested on certain things in our discussion. But once she talked about her friend, and giving me her facebook rather than number i kind of got confused. Either she didnt get the message i was suggesting to go on a date. Or she is simply not interested and i picked up on the wrong body language or whatever. She might have just been sweet out of politeless. Also, ive only met her twice in my life. We've only had a conversation twice.
    I kept the conversation playful interested in her or whatever. She was playing with her hair, and then her headphones while talking to me.She looked at me as i was leaving the coffee place according to my friend.

    Any suggestion how i should go about this? All i need is to actually get her to have a coffee with me. Then im fine. I just need her to say yes. Im guessing shes not comfortable because i dated her friend 2 years ago for 2/3 weeks. But then again. it wasnt more serious then that.

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    Default Re: She wants to go for a drink with her friend?

    When she said "Yeah maybe with julia (person b) we could all meet up" ...... I would have said "NO, ... I don't want to have coffee with Julia" ..... this way I make it clear that I'm not interested in (girlA) ..... I have dated friends of old girlfriends and it can be tricky especially if you have been intimate with both of them , but since your first relationship wasn't serious and it was only like three weeks you should be good to go
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    Default Re: She wants to go for a drink with her friend?

    Yeah i guess that makes sense. But yeah.I added her on Facebook. Anyways, she blocked me on facebook. So now im really puzzled. Makes no sense. But yeah fuck it

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    Default Re: She wants to go for a drink with her friend?

    I think you looked too deep into her "IOI's", there were several red flags. First, she offered to have Julia come. That's her dodging the "date" vibe of going out and getting coffee, or even staying more loyal to her friend Julia. Secondly, she refused your offer for her number. That's a clear indication she's not interested. If she gave you all these signs she'd have no problem giving you her number. The fact that she didn't was that she was being polite, and she feels probably uncomfortable with the idea of seeing her best friends ex. Girls have a weird code about that kind of stuff.



    Honestly i would mess with her. I have rules against dating ex's friends, because I don't want anything to do with my ex's and that's just asking for trouble. There's enough women in this world no to mess with my ex's friends.

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    Default Re: She wants to go for a drink with her friend?

    They went out for like three weeks ..... that almost doesn't even count
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    Default Re: She wants to go for a drink with her friend?

    Girls seldom have that sort of loyalty when it comes to guys

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    Default Re: She wants to go for a drink with her friend?

    Quote Originally Posted by drgnsfire12 View Post
    They went out for like three weeks ..... that almost doesn't even count
    Almost?! That totally doesn't count. I don't think that's the issue at all. How could someone care if they dated for three weeks? That's how long you dated someone in middle school. There's obviously more going on then this non-issue.

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    Default Re: She wants to go for a drink with her friend?

    Yeah maybe youre right. I dont know i guess i just had a feeling she liked me. But yeah its probablmy what she was doing. Fuck it anyways

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    Default Re: She wants to go for a drink with her friend?

    Thats what im saying! Like 2/3 weeks. Thats a joke, i dont see the problem. Makes absolute no sense, but whatever


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