Re: Don't completely understand this
First of all, I don't know if your English is just bad but please better organize your post especially if you're asking for advice. None of us want to read an eye bashing post and frankly I don't know why I bothered with yours. Well...
Here goes my opinion:
She seems happy in her relationship and the way you asked her out on a date is a bit too much if you ask me. Being cocky and confident is one thing, but there's a fine line between being cocky & confident and being disrespectful towards people. You can always do a variation of BF destroyer, but what you just did with flat out ignoring the boyfriend will only get her defensive.
It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.
It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.