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    Capriman is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Unhappy I donīt Understand this Girl... SHE REALLY HAVE FEAR?

    Hey guys! rembember my post?

    https://www.puaforums.com/help-getti...e-help-me.html


    Well, She text me months ago (before I pulled away)


    And I just I donīt understand what was the real problem in that time... Now we are good (good friends haha)


    In that ocasion I send a message saying something like:
    "hey, whatīs going on with us, Iīm really donīt understand why you always dissapear and ignore me, I just want to know, because this situation is not good for us because we are good friend too"
    (Yes, I know. I made a mistake.)


    and She answer this:


    "Sorry, I could not answer before
    And now I'm the same or worse than you ... I do not understand anything
    This is not a good time ... seriously
    I'll try to be more open with you,
    I am not very open.. you know that
    But still that... I'm open to you because we became very good friends
    I did not believe it was possible but ... you became my friend
    And I say so...
    because I did not think that someone like you would be interested befriend me

    And I mean that ... we talked and talked until I said "ah well ~ ..I like him" and I did not want it
    And then I felt bad about what is happening
    Simply for the fact that I told you I liked you and did not show to you
    That's why you maybe say "this playing with me"
    Just because this is awkard to me..y I'm not for that
    I canīt show you ..I just can not
    And it's frustrating ..me makes you feel bad because you show what you feel... and sometimes I think I do not deserve to feel that for me
    I'm just so cold ....
    I never felt love for anyone .... never ... I do not even know what that feels like


    .. I think you will get tired of it faster than I can do something


    I do not trust anyone romantically and I'm too afraid to have a relationship for now


    And I know it sounds stupid but can really scares me ..


    We do not know much each other... and that is my fault
    But for now I just want to be friends ... because otherwise we will end badly .... and that will be my fault


    Because I do not always'll answer your calls and messages ...
    We did not see so much
    And if we are, I will be as I am ... cold
    And I do not want that
    And I appreciate your friendship is important to me
    So I just I can not
    Because that will ruin"

    What do you think about it? What happened in that moment?

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    Default Re: I donīt Understand this Girl... SHE REALLY HAVE FEAR?

    The truth s this: This girl has serious issues, she basically just told you that. Honestly, I've never dealt with such a thing to give you advice, if you're wondering why, it's because I don't want to deal with such a thing. Ask yourself this question do you want to spend all your precious time taking care of or looking out for a girl like that? Wouldn't you rather just go out and have fun?
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: I donīt Understand this Girl... SHE REALLY HAVE FEAR?

    I'm going to be honest... Please proof read or edit your posts. It's very difficult to read your post the way it's written.

    But it I agree with what Xavier said. She is playing her insecurities into you.

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    Default Re: I donīt Understand this Girl... SHE REALLY HAVE FEAR?

    Yeah man! Thanks for the advice. Actually I use google translate because Iīm not speak english very good. Sorry!


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