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Thread: Had a "professional/work" relationship with HB 9, need help

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    Default Had a "professional/work" relationship with HB 9, need help

    I'll try to cut straight to the chase. I knew this girl a year ago from work, we only small talked, nothing much. She was a waitress and I was a busboy. After I quit the job, we obviously didn't talk afterwards. I randomly bumped into her at a bar tonight and she was with all her friends. As I was about to leave, the bouncer kicked her the fuck out of the bar. All her friends ditched her, she was drunk, and alone. I felt bad so I took her home. When I was actually in the bar, I tried escalating more with her with push/pull. It worked really well at first, but she was so drunk that no matter how well I ran my game it didn't matter (she kept wandering off, ADD/ADHD). Anyways, she's hot as fuck and single. The problem is she always knew me as the "busboy" so I doubt I can fuck her (Possible friendzone/no attraction). So either (A) I can someway somehow fuck her so LET ME KNOW HOW I CAN DO THAT or (B) stay friends with her so that I can fuck HER FRIENDS.

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    Default Re: Had a "professional/work" relationship with HB 9, need help

    Sounds like a win/win situation, but how will you stay in contact with her ...... did you get her number ?????

    FYI - who cares you were a busboy, I washed dishes at an all night diner when I was in college, you're not planning on being a busy boy as a career so forget about it
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    Default Re: Had a "professional/work" relationship with HB 9, need help

    It's not about my work position, it's just that see only REMEMBERS me and associates me with my last work position which is a "busboy". Anyways, IDK how to run game on her. She's a hb 9-10 and all her friends are 9-10's. They all work at Hooters, so they get hit on EVERYDAY.

    Also, I did get her number last night, to answer your question

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    Default Re: Had a "professional/work" relationship with HB 9, need help

    she should remember you as the guy who got her drunk ass home. You should text her and neg her about that ..... but of course dont go overboard with it
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    Default Re: Had a "professional/work" relationship with HB 9, need help

    UPDATE:

    Me: I'll text you some other time if the scooby gang is up to something fun

    hb: Ok )) thank you again for last night
    hb: I need some sleep lol feel like shit

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    Default Re: Had a "professional/work" relationship with HB 9, need help

    If you want to convince someone to do something, you usually have to show them how they will benefit by agreeing to it, and address any objections they have.

    Do you know what her objections are? You don't bother to list them in your question details, so you either haven't asked, haven't listened when she's told you, or haven't even stopped to wonder if she has sensible objections because you're not remotely concerned with her thoughts, feelings, needs, and desires. Since you're apparently considering raping her ("explain how to forcefully have"), I'm going to go with that last one.


    Are you offering something that would benefit her, like, I dunno, pleasure? Since you're apparently considering raping her, I suspect you're not remotely concerned with her pleasure. Perhaps she's picked up on that.


    I'm astounded that I need to write this, but here goes: Do not rape your girlfriend. Do not focus so much on getting your penis into her vagina that you neglect little things like, I dunno, her enjoyment, her comfort level, and her consent. Women want sex to be fun. Rape is not fun. Lying there feeling nothing while your boyfriend gets his rocks off is not fun. Fearing pregnancy, disease, societal disapproval, or future marriage prospects -- all sensible reasons to decide not to have sex just yet -- are not fun. Really, I think you need to go back to square one and learn how to view other human beings with respect and empathy. You might even find that women are more willing to have consensual, mutually enjoyable sex with you.
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    Default Re: Had a "professional/work" relationship with HB 9, need help

    Quote Originally Posted by Joseph_pedro View Post
    If you want to convince someone to do something, you usually have to show them how they will benefit by agreeing to it, and address any objections they have.

    Do you know what her objections are? You don't bother to list them in your question details, so you either haven't asked, haven't listened when she's told you, or haven't even stopped to wonder if she has sensible objections because you're not remotely concerned with her thoughts, feelings, needs, and desires. Since you're apparently considering raping her ("explain how to forcefully have"), I'm going to go with that last one.


    Are you offering something that would benefit her, like, I dunno, pleasure? Since you're apparently considering raping her, I suspect you're not remotely concerned with her pleasure. Perhaps she's picked up on that.


    I'm astounded that I need to write this, but here goes: Do not rape your girlfriend. Do not focus so much on getting your penis into her vagina that you neglect little things like, I dunno, her enjoyment, her comfort level, and her consent. Women want sex to be fun. Rape is not fun. Lying there feeling nothing while your boyfriend gets his rocks off is not fun. Fearing pregnancy, disease, societal disapproval, or future marriage prospects -- all sensible reasons to decide not to have sex just yet -- are not fun. Really, I think you need to go back to square one and learn how to view other human beings with respect and empathy. You might even find that women are more willing to have consensual, mutually enjoyable sex with you.
    Lol, rape..... I never planned on or plan to rape her. If I did, I would've done it when she was drunk. But, it's okay I'll overlook your ignorance.

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    Default Re: Had a "professional/work" relationship with HB 9, need help

    Quote Originally Posted by Joseph_pedro View Post
    If you want to convince someone to do something, you usually have to show them how they will benefit by agreeing to it, and address any objections they have.

    Do you know what her objections are? You don't bother to list them in your question details, so you either haven't asked, haven't listened when she's told you, or haven't even stopped to wonder if she has sensible objections because you're not remotely concerned with her thoughts, feelings, needs, and desires. Since you're apparently considering raping her ("explain how to forcefully have"), I'm going to go with that last one.


    Are you offering something that would benefit her, like, I dunno, pleasure? Since you're apparently considering raping her, I suspect you're not remotely concerned with her pleasure. Perhaps she's picked up on that.


    I'm astounded that I need to write this, but here goes: Do not rape your girlfriend. Do not focus so much on getting your penis into her vagina that you neglect little things like, I dunno, her enjoyment, her comfort level, and her consent. Women want sex to be fun. Rape is not fun. Lying there feeling nothing while your boyfriend gets his rocks off is not fun. Fearing pregnancy, disease, societal disapproval, or future marriage prospects -- all sensible reasons to decide not to have sex just yet -- are not fun. Really, I think you need to go back to square one and learn how to view other human beings with respect and empathy. You might even find that women are more willing to have consensual, mutually enjoyable sex with you.
    Haha well that escalated quickly!!

    That meteor text you sent was kinda funny! That type of texting will help you stand out and hopefully distant you from being 'just the busboy' - which, as drgnsfire said, doesn't matter anyway.
    I think you lost a little with the last text about the ex bf though.

    Don't be scared to tease her a bit too. The fact that she's a 10 shouldn't make any difference.

    One last thing; decide what it is you want to do.. her or her friends? Make a decision and go for it with conviction! If you go for her and fail, her friends are going to know this and won't want to feel like your backup option.

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    Default Re: Had a "professional/work" relationship with HB 9, need help

    If a moderator can please close this thread. I did not know there was a texting game section. Don't want to double post. Thanks.


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