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    Default any advice on picking chicks up at there jobs

    So I live in a very rural area. There are like 6 bars in town and non of them have much prospect for pickup. But I've noticed lately that a lot of cashiers at local stores are giving iois like crazy when I go there. Not sure if there bored or what but there are 3 specific ones that go out of there way to speak to me.. So here's the delema; how do I try to get to pick them up without coming across as a creep? Asking for a phone number or whatever just seems like it would set off red flags. I'm sure these chicks get hit on all day. Ive had friends that were cashiers and they had all kinds of creeper stories.
    I'm thinking about just cracking an inside joke and slipping them my number.what do you think?

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    Default Re: any advice on picking chicks up at there jobs

    That's how I'd do it. Have a business card, or more like a calling card, something cool and fun that has your number on it. Business cards are cheap. Vistaprint basically charges nothing for hundreds of them. The downside to this is that it immediately marks you as a player if you have "cards" for this purpose. So try to come up with something funny that makes it kind of justifiable. I can't give you an exact example because I haven't come up with one, but put on your creativity cap and maybe something will come to you?

    Actually, I'm already getting a pretty good idea... hahaha... just think about it.
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    Default Re: any advice on picking chicks up at there jobs

    I was thinking I would just write it on the back of a receipt and slide it to her while cracking the inside joke. The one chick I was teasing about being being there every time I go in then she cracked something about me being a stalker. We both laughed then I got some report by getting her to talk about what she was going to school for. I'm thinking when its time to give my number I'll slide it over and say something about it being her turn to be the stalker. If I keep it playful do you think I can slid right by the creeper and radar? And by saying it's your turn would that be a qualifier/ challenge?

    Thanks for the feedback, thejuice

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    Default Re: any advice on picking chicks up at there jobs

    Good advice on the business card/player card @Blackbird. I was going to so don't try it because it is difficult to pull a number on a Hired Gun still I have done it time and time again. What I would recommend though is asking for her number if she is hitting on you. Whenever a bartender, store clerk, or a hairstylist is blatantly hitting on me I go for the goal and close that out. Usually it works like a charm because they are already indicating they want.

    However the flip side to this is that I am straying away from Hired Gun game as it has gotten me into trouble before. Anyway I wouldn't recommend it unless you absolutely are confident. The sad thing is things are awkward in that local if things go sour and they usually do....
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    Default Re: any advice on picking chicks up at there jobs

    Also may try the business card thing myself for the hard sets aka Hired Gun game for something like "Call me for a hookup and a margarita under pale moonlight afterwards haha."
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    Default Re: any advice on picking chicks up at there jobs

    Yeah, it'd have to be more fun than a business card to really get her attention and get her to bother actually putting that number into her phone. I'm envisioning something that has some sort of game on one side. Like maybe a checklist of random things you might see during your day, kind of like a scavenger hunt. Hand her the card, tell her it's a race to see who can check off 5 things fastest, and to text you when she achieves it.

    That's just the rough concept I came up with. Of course, it needs to be refined, but as a concept it could be interesting. And then you could justify the cards as just being a fun game you like to play with new people. You can thereby bypass her apprehension towards texting you because texting you is no longer the goal-- it's to win the game. In other words, it gets her to text you without you appearing to be outcome dependent towards getting her text. In fact, you're kind of hoping she doesn't text you because that means you won!

    Or, since I do tarot card readings, I could say "Text this number to receive your fortune."
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    Default Re: any advice on picking chicks up at there jobs

    Asking for a phone number or whatever just seems like it would set off red flags.
    don't ask for it, just get it!

    girls give their numbers out like candy at a parade. so don't be a b!tch about it, if you confidently hand her your phone with the "new contact" page pulled up 9 times out of 10 the girl will put her information in. 1 in 10 might give you a a small amount of token resistance (in witch case you just need to talk to her a while longer and give her another chance to get your number)


    the only time girls ever reject number closes are when guys are extremely unconfident about it and "ask" or "beg" for the girl to give him her number.

    my recommendation is that you flirt with the girl every time you go to her workplace, to the point where she remembers you as a cool regular. your huge advantage is that you only have to be able to make good conversation for 10 minutes every time you go see her. this means that you only need a few good flirts each time you see her and you can build comfort over a period of time. if you brighten her day every time you come in she's going to associate those good feelings with you and thus get excited every time you come to her store.

    now, the trap you don't want to fall into is seeing her every day or texting her all the time. that will take some of the magic out of your visits.

    now, if you're still unconfident about getting numbers, here's a rule that will help you: if you can put a smile on her face you can get her number, if you can make her blush you can kiss her, and if you can cause her to have bedroom eyes you know... lol

    gaming is really simple now, if you can be cool and make her feel good, she'll likely return the favor. that's all you really have to do, give the right vibe and don't be afraid to take things further.


    [QUOTE][Have a business card/QUOTE]

    business cards? really?... that's not good advice for someone in a small town where everyone knows everyone. that could be the fastest way to put yourself on the map as a guy everyone should avoid.

    it might make you look like a slick businessman in Chicago, but in a small town with no scene, its just a way to alienate yourself.

    also, getting her number is far better than giving her yours. you have much better odds of getting her on the phone if you both have each others numbers.

    If I keep it playful do you think I can slid right by the creeper and radar?
    positive association is how you slip past the creeper radar. being playful and generative is the best frame to have. remember, giving her good feelings every time you see her is the key to success.

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    Default Re: any advice on picking chicks up at there jobs

    Well, first of all, it kind of depends on your job. I was an attorney. I'd give my business card to anyone, even if I was in a small town. It's called marketing. Second of all, you could create a fun card with an ulterior purpose (such as a fun game) that could pass muster in a small town... so long as you were running solid social circle game along with it which, really, if you live in a small town, you definitely need to be doing anyway. In that case though, it wouldn't necessarily be a business card, it would be some sort of game... like when I'd be bored waiting for dinner in a restaurant and Dad would pull out two sugar packets and we'd play "evens and odds", flipping the packets down on the table, one of us getting a point if they landed on the same side, the other if they fell opposite. I mean, that's just a silly game, but if you're creative, I feel that it's something that could be leveraged.

    But I do agree that an average business card isn't the best approach, although I did use it with success in Chicago. I never tried to use the business card, but if I were chatting up a cashier and there was a massive line behind me, I neither wanted to be taking up the time of everyone else in line, nor want it to be too obvious what was happening and in that case, the business card was the smoother and quicker alternative. So really, it just depends.
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    Default Re: any advice on picking chicks up at there jobs

    Well, first of all, it kind of depends on your job. I was an attorney.
    and that is the main reason you could actually use the "business card" in your favor. here's the question though, how many small town girls have actually called you after receiving your business card? and fully understood that you wanted them for more than just "business" ???

    many small town people are impoverished and would see a business card as a message saying "I'm rich and better than you" I'm not saying it can't work for the right person, but I think more conventional methods fly under the radar much better.

    and like I said before, I'm sure the business cards have a higher success rate in a big city like Chicago than they would in a small town like hundred wv

    maybe the real question we should be asking the op is: how small is your "small town" ???


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