Re: How do I deal with flakes?
How do you deal with flakes? Pour some milk on them and add a little sugar.
Seriously, you need to slow down. Screen logistics. In other words, before you even ask her out, you should know what her calendar looks like, what the best days are, what plans she has already, etc. Now if a girl is really busy and into you, then you ask her to name a few days and times when she's free and you simply pick the one that works best for you. Or if she's more flexible, then you name a few days and times that you're free and tell her to pick the one that works for her.
Back in November, all of my prime weekend slots were filled up through February. No joke. It wasn't all dates, of course. A lot of it was things I was doing with friends and whatnot. But the point is, it wasn't very easy to make plans with me and I'd often wind up meeting up with a girl for lunch on a Wednesday afternoon because it was the only time that we could meet.
Hypnotist, NLP geek. I've done: Tao of Badass, Hacking Attraction, How To Date Multiple Women (Pellicer's stuff), Get the Girl, How to Talk to Hot Women, No Strings Attached (Mehow's stuff), and now I'm getting into RSD's stuff. I don't go out a lot, but I kill it when challenged