Re: Could use some advice! How to finally break them up
She sounds like the kind of girl who's never single. She wants to go from one relationship straight into another. I don't have a lot of respect for girls like this, it shows some personality flaws. However, it is what it is. Expect a whirlwind of crap and emotion if you push through and pursue her. But with all that said, it's also good to be able to recognize girls like this and to understand the dynamic.
I have all the respect in the world for people who are in real relationships, but you also have to recognize that 90% of relationships are bullshit. Questions I like to ask include: So are you living together? (Do you even have plans to move into the same city as one another?) When's the wedding? Have you talked about getting engaged? Have you two talked about how you're going to work out the whole distance thing? etc etc. Basically, you want to figure out if there is a solid plan in place to make it work, or if it's just some facebook make believe relationship. The latter is worthy of busting through, IMO.
There's this one really pretty girl that I work with. We sort of were feeling each other out for awhile. She now has a bf. They are talking about buying a house together. And her car is in a million pieces in his garage right now as he fixes the engine. Alright. The end. That's good enough for me to back off. It sounds legit.
Compare that to a girl who has a long distance FB boyfriend who she doesn't have any plans to move in with or even be in the same city with. The difference there is pretty clear.
Hypnotist, NLP geek. I've done: Tao of Badass, Hacking Attraction, How To Date Multiple Women (Pellicer's stuff), Get the Girl, How to Talk to Hot Women, No Strings Attached (Mehow's stuff), and now I'm getting into RSD's stuff. I don't go out a lot, but I kill it when challenged