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    Default confused on what to do next when she went cold

    A little background me and this chick been talking for a while and she would usually initiate text me and send me snaps through out the day. We hung out a couple times with a group of friends and i could tell she was interested. So i finally Took this chick on a couple of dates with just us and after the last date she went cold. Everything was good on the dates we were laughing joking touching However at the end of the date i failed to make a move and since then she has gone cold. I know the problem is cause i didnt make a move. So when she went cold she stopped initiating texts and take hours before she would respond to mine so i stopped contact. When i did that she would initiatw again. I tried to ask her out again but she said she couldnt that day and said we can go next week and tutor her in finance at the same time. A friend of mine said im taking too long to make a move and shes losing interest and when i see her next week i should just tell her that i like her and lets stop beating around the bush. Which i agree with but i dont know if i should actually say i like you ive read mixed opinions on this i just wanted to see what everyones opinion is on it

    Before i get scrutinized for not making a move i know thats my fault but this asian girl was hard to read. Her personality seems shy and seems like the type that likes to be courted. I would say shes a traditional fob asian girl. She seemed interested but when it came to physical she was shy and distant. Anyways any help would be great

    Also should i still remain not contact with her until we meet up?

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    Default Re: confused on what to do next when she went cold

    i would stop contacting her for a little while, like for a week or two. if she asks you bout it, tell her you were really busy with a project, and that you'd love to meet her somewhere to catch up. if she doesn't ask, try to find out if she has anything planned, like if she's going to a party in a few weeks or something. Go to the same event, so it looks like a happy accident you met her there. Talk to her a little, touch her a lot (hug her when you see her, stroke her back when you ask her how she's been, neutral but sweet stuff like that), but the ignore her a bit, so she'll get a bit jealous of other people you're hanging out with. she'll eventually give you some signal that she wants you to talk to her. then you can disuss what happened, like the two of you stopping to go on dates, and ask her if she wants to get a drink a few days later. that's what i would do, any context is different ofcourse and i don't know you or the girl you want, if you're still unsure, ask mutual friends for advice, they know both you and her. sorry if my english is crappy, i'm dutch haha. best of luck bro

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    Default Re: confused on what to do next when she went cold

    Thanks for the advice. We are already scheduled to meet next week so should i keep minimal contact or no contact till then?

    Also my mutual friend basically telling me to just tell her how i feel and where we stand but ive always thought of straight up telling a girl i like you as a bad thing.


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