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    So my biggest problem is I'm an introvert... or maybe I wouldn't call this a problem since I actually like being alone most of the time. The only problem with this is that being alone mean I can't stand to be in places like clubs and bars. I personally find them annoying and not interesting. Also I'm not a fan of drinking that much and prices in bars are often more than what I'm willing to pay (I'm a compulsive saver. My bank account testifies to that). In the old days I rarely stayed to chat with girls when I was in places like that, I'd often just say hi, drop a couple of lines and go. I never really sat down and attempted to have any prolonged conversations with girls. I kept taking the advise of dating books a little too literally with that. Albeit I believe I should have tried to talk more to those girls. My main problem is approaching effectively. I have the confidence, just not the skill.

    The other thing is, I unfortunately don't know much people who are in the dating scene. I tried to join a fraternity once, but I got rejected, the girls at the frat house were surprisingly open and very honest, even I had a girl tell me how turned on she as like it was a video game stat. It was pretty cool, but I never got back to it since I was not accepted by the frat.

    What all of this means, I'm going to have to do things alone. Also because I'm interested in younger girls, (I'm 31 currently) albeit I don't look that old. Just what kind of approach do I need when walking up to girls?

    I'm thinking about volunteering at an animal shelter to see if I can find anyone there. It helps that I really love animals, in fact, as I was writing this, my cat was lying in front of me and my arms were on top of her, ha!

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    Default Re: Flying solo

    You should volunteer at an animal hospital because that's the most pussy you are ever going to get

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    Default Re: Flying solo

    Quote Originally Posted by DSAN1 View Post
    You should volunteer at an animal hospital because that's the most pussy you are ever going to get
    I can't tell if you're being sarcastic or for real. I did volunteer once, and yes, they were almost all girls there.

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    I'm just wondering if you are an introvert and like being alone how the hell do you ever plan on meeting girls ????

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    Quote Originally Posted by DSAN1 View Post
    I'm just wondering if you are an introvert and like being alone how the hell do you ever plan on meeting girls ????
    Because even introverts get relationships? Not everyone who gets laid or has relationships is some kind of party animal. Both my sisters married people best described as loners and they're fairly cool people.

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    Default Re: Flying solo

    The fact that you're an introvert shouldn't make any difference. Your OP did come off a little weird and creepy though lol

    You don't like pubs and clubs? So don't go to pubs and clubs to try and pick up girls!! They're not your type. Find something you have an interest in (ie: animal shelter) and meet girls there with similar interests to yours.

    Just what kind of approach do I need when walking up to girls?
    Confidence..

    .. and I would leave out the crazy cat stuff until you know people a little better lol if someone asks you; "yeah, I have a cat, it's an x-breed" that's it!! I don't care how cute and fluffy it is and how it does this cute little thing when you.. NO! Nobody wants to hear that stuff right off the bat! That shit comes off super creepy!

    And lastly don't dislike bars because of how expensive drinks are.. Find a positive spin to put on things; "I much prefer to be out doing x-activity" (as long as it's not at home playing with your cat!). Nobody wants to be around the guy who's whining all the time.

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    Default Re: Flying solo

    There's nothing wrong with being an introvert. Introvert can actually have an advantage over extroverts. Extroverted people tend to speak a lot more than the person they are speaking to while introverts tend to listen more. Get the girl qualifying herself to you while you barely say a word. I was really shy growing up but I've developed myself into an outgoing introvert and enjoy social settings.
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    Good luck building any kind of attraction with women being an introvert who plays with cats, LMAO !!

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    Default Re: Flying solo

    Let's not be too hard here, some people are extroverts and some introverts , but being an introvert does not preclude you from meeting girls .... it might make it a little more difficult but lots of things can make it more difficult and we deal with them. I do agree with Kvn, be careful about the cat stuff, it can come off as creepy and unfortunately I think society has this idea that a guy with a cat = gay. I would volunteer at the shelter, I'm sure there are let's of young ladies volunteering down there and I bet a lot of them like cats ....... GL
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kvn07 View Post
    The fact that you're an introvert shouldn't make any difference. Your OP did come off a little weird and creepy though lol

    You don't like pubs and clubs? So don't go to pubs and clubs to try and pick up girls!! They're not your type. Find something you have an interest in (ie: animal shelter) and meet girls there with similar interests to yours.


    Confidence..

    .. and I would leave out the crazy cat stuff until you know people a little better lol if someone asks you; "yeah, I have a cat, it's an x-breed" that's it!! I don't care how cute and fluffy it is and how it does this cute little thing when you.. NO! Nobody wants to hear that stuff right off the bat! That shit comes off super creepy!

    And lastly don't dislike bars because of how expensive drinks are.. Find a positive spin to put on things; "I much prefer to be out doing x-activity" (as long as it's not at home playing with your cat!). Nobody wants to be around the guy who's whining all the time.
    The thing is I'm not actually that shy. In fact I'm a well-known motormouth. My problem isn't that I can't listen though, it's that when I talk to girls, I don't know how to get them to start talking. Most guys complain about being unable to get girls to shut up, my problem is the opposite, when I try to talk to a girl I have the opposite effect... she won't get started.


    Good luck building any kind of attraction with women being an introvert who plays with cats, LMAO !!
    Yes because the 2nd (or 1st) most popular pet in North America makes you an eternal virgin, by your standard 1/3 of guys never had sex at the very least.


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