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    Natino is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How to convince a girl you're not gonna hit and quit?

    Need some expert advice guys!

    We've all been there. You game a girl. It works and she becomes intensely attracted to you. You hook up a few times and everything's great.

    Then you start to fall for this girl. You want to take things to the next level and ask her to be your girlfriend. But lo and behold, she doesn't trust your intentions. She thinks you're a player, a hit and quit it kinda guy. The dude who flirts with every single girl he meets. You're not gonna stick around and you'll be onto the next girl before she knows it. She knows you're good at picking up girls, you picked her up after all.

    How on God's green earth does one overcome this? How do you get this girl to believe that you think she's the one and that you're ready to settle down and be committed to her? How can you build that trust?

    Any thoughts or experiences are most welcome!

    Natino

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    lenric is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: How to convince a girl you're not gonna hit and quit?

    Who cares what she thinks? We can't impregnate our thoughts in nobody's mind.
    Simply act in a way you believe that's right and congruent with your intentions. As in, if you want to stick with her, get her to see a movie if you want to see a movie with her. Dine with her in a fancy restaurant if you want it.

    It doesn't matter what you say, but how you do it.

    Every once in a while, if you feel you miss her, tell her you miss her and that you were thinking about her.

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    Default Re: How to convince a girl you're not gonna hit and quit?

    Just keep dating her until she brings up the relationship. If the end game is to have her become your girlfriend...then your actions should be that of a boyfriend but don't stop being who you are. Gestures of a boyfriend but the mindset of a player/lover until you guys make it official. But even then, I'd keep that mindset.

    I get this question from this particular girl ive been seeing 4 months. I told her that I wouldn't be ready to be in a relationship but I do acknowledge how she feels about not being just a fuck toy. Just reassure her from time to time when she brings it up and obviously keep doing what you are doing.


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