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Thread: Text critique - how to continue from here?

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    Default Text critique - how to continue from here?

    Hi all,

    Opened this girl in the supermarket on Thursday after work. I opened her by asking which is the healthiest fish to eat etc (by the fish section). I rambled on and managed to engage her in full conversation for 5-10 minutes. After talking about food and teasing her about she cooks, we then talked a bit about where we're from and our jobs etc. She is actually a Chinese intern working here in London. I finished the interaction saying we should grab a coffee sometime and got her number. The store was nearly closing but I could see she was in no hurry to leave and very happy to continue talking.

    The day after I text her and the interaction goes as follows:

    Me: Hey! Nice meeting u yesterday, this is MyName. This is the cooking expert HerName right
    Her: It's HerName actually haha (her name spelt slightly differently)
    Me: Ha I was close! How's ur day going
    Her: Just busy as normal
    Me: Yeah same here. In that case we should have a relaxing drink sometime
    Her: cool
    Me: Cool when works for a drink? U can be my cooking teacher (I had been asking her how she cooks during our conversation)

    She didn't reply to that last text of mine.

    I haven't actively worked on my text game in a while and, as a result, it has suffered. Please feel free to criticize my messages as much as you like? Also, how would you now reignite the situatio

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    Default Re: Text critique - how to continue from here?

    Perhaps wait a couple days and call? I can't stand texting again after not getting a reply. You could come up with a couple events that are on to give her some options. Potentially bring your friends and get her to bring a couple of her friends to make it a bit lighter. If she ends up answering tell her you're really busy with something at the moment but wanted to take two minutes to give her a call (you found her super interesting and you're intrigued to learn more about her).

    Alternatively you could text again and say something along the lines of 'you'll never guess who I just ran into!' Something to bait her. Or send her a picture of something really interesting or mysterious you've been up to. Maybe make a joke about the fact she didn't reply last time.

    Of course you could keep going with the context in which you met. Ask her along for a shopping trip.

    A few ideas but I'm sure someone who actually knows what they're talking about will have a better answer for you.

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    Default Re: Text critique - how to continue from here?

    NEVER EVER comment to girl about her not responding to your text ..... it makes you look needy and response dependent and, even if you are, you can't let them know that. Wait a day and text her again with something completely random that isn't about cooking
    "The purpose of our lives is to be happy" - his Holiness the Dalai Llama of Tibet

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    Default Re: Text critique - how to continue from here?

    You set up a date too soon, because you haven't build enough attraction, and badly, because you have to say what you want, not ask for what you want.

    Text her something pretty random, such as...

    "Do you know that we can't put our tongue on our nose?



    I bet you tried it dork!!! "

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    Default Re: Text critique - how to continue from here?

    Quote Originally Posted by lenric View Post
    You set up a date too soon, because you haven't build enough attraction, and badly, because you have to say what you want, not ask for what you want.

    Text her something pretty random, such as...

    "Do you know that we can't put our tongue on our nose?



    I bet you tried it dork!!! "
    Thanks for that, feedback noted.

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    Default Re: Text critique - how to continue from here?

    i would not text a silly joke. thats going to make you look like a dork.
    i think asking her out for a drink and then saying she shoul teach you to cook was too much.

    you shoud just meet her for lunch one day and take it from there...asian chicks are not as easy sleazy as white chicks can be. you have to work hard.


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