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Thread: MIstake-New girl in our Social Circle

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    Default MIstake-New girl in our Social Circle

    Hey guys,
    Friday night I met a new girl, friend of friends.
    I approached her, talking and joking for a couple of hours, she answered with IDI and I also send her IDI in the end, arriving in the comfort zone.
    I did a huge mistake , thinking that she would come out again with us on Saturday, because a new friends night our was planned, and I did not ask her phone number.
    On Saturday she did not come, and now I have fear to lose the comfort that I have created waiting for the next time that she will come again with my friends.

    Do you suggest to ask her number to a friend of her or to wait until the next time in which she will come out again with us (could be tomorrow or in a month or more)?
    (I do not know her surname and I do not have FB)

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    Default Re: MIstake-New girl in our Social Circle

    I suggest you that you stop thinking about her so much. You talked to her for 2 hours and you already want to marry her? Too needy, too clingy.

    Talk with other girls. When this girl hangs out with your friends, talk to her (as you will talk with every other person around you, don't focus on her, mainly at the beginning) and do whatever you want to do except getting comfort, unless you want to be just friends.

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    Default Re: MIstake-New girl in our Social Circle

    Thank You Ienric for your answer,
    I am not thinking about marriage ahahah =), I also did my game on other girls saturday and yesterday, only I hate to lose time, and in this particular situation, I did all the first moves, i ignore her for the first 20 minutes, talking to her friends and sending her IDDs, and then I moved on and i arrived in the comfort zone.
    So my question is just to use this comfort zone now and do not have to re-create it next time.

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    Default Re: MIstake-New girl in our Social Circle

    if it's social circle game..you already have some "comfort" because people know you. You won't have to recreate anything, just be like "hey haven't seen you in awhile" and move on from thre.


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