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Thread: What to do when a woman doesn't get back to you.

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    Default What to do when a woman doesn't get back to you.

    I used to worry about this. Some call it flaking some call it passive aggressive. Whatever you want to call it it seems that it's pretty much inevitable(for whatever reason)that sooner or later a woman will not get back to you. I've actually had women do it to me who said they would never do it to a guy. Lol. Anyway, this is actually one of my biggest sticking points. Personally, I think the biggest mistake you can make is to call them out on it(at least directly). I personally would handle it by just moving on to the next one and forgetting about her. Sooner or later you will meet a woman who won't do this. Or you can just do it to them. However, I would rather just say to myself "hmmmmm, that's good because this means she won't be wasting my time." Even though it is a rather passive way of her dealing with the situation you can just say to yourself "the right woman wouldn't do something like that" or "I will use it as a learning experience. I guess my game just isn't as tight as it needs to be yet."

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    Default Re: What to do when a woman doesn't get back to you.

    The main thing is not to take it personally. That's the key point.

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    Default Re: What to do when a woman doesn't get back to you.

    Quote Originally Posted by Mr. Assertive View Post
    The main thing is not to take it personally. That's the key point.
    I agree. However, I think too many guys try to get the woman to admit what she did was wrong. 9 times out of 10 that's not going to happen. The reality is she owes you nothing and doesn't answer to you just like you don't answer to her.

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    Default Re: What to do when a woman doesn't get back to you.

    I just don't give a fuck. It saves me a lot of time.

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    Default Re: What to do when a woman doesn't get back to you.

    I guess what I want to know is do you still pursue her or get back to you even if you were the last one to contact her? In other words you call her and she doesn't call you back and then two or three days later you call her again. Do you guys do that and do you recommend it or is it better to just move on.

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    Default Re: What to do when a woman doesn't get back to you.

    I have pursued girls who didn't give me the time of day before. I usually go no contact for more than a few days if she insists on blowing me off. So sometimes it takes weeks. During this time, I figure out what went wrong or I just decide to come back to her later. It is a hit or a miss. During this time though, go for girls who are receptive, by the time you come back to her, you probably will have laid a couple girls by then. Does this work? Yes, how? My ex girlfriend. Messed up the first date, didn't talk for 3 months. Reconnected with her and next thing you know, we are bf and gf 6 months later

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    Default Re: What to do when a woman doesn't get back to you.

    But, most of the people here will tell you to cut your losses. And this should be considered an option also, especially if the girl you are pursuing is worth it. If she isn't, ask yourself why you are chasing? I had a reason to chase my ex girlfriend. She had traits and qualities I wanted.

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    Default Re: What to do when a woman doesn't get back to you.

    Like I said, I don't give a fuck. If I set up a date with some girl and she doesn't reply, I don't give a fuck. Next. Why become attached to her? Why should I become upset if she rejects my approach? It's not my loss.

    I only pursue my dreams, not girls. There are gazillions of women out there, why would I be bothered if a few of them reject me? It will always happen, no matter how good you are.


    The less dependent on the outcome you become, the lesser you'll be rejected.


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